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A honeymoon is a holiday taken by newlyweds immediately after their wedding, to celebrate their marriage. Today, honeymoons are often celebrated in destinations considered exotic or romantic.

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Newlyweds leaving for their honeymoon boarding a Trans-Canada Air Lines plane, Montreal, 1946 Wedding. Yvette Villebon BAnQ P48S1P14609.jpg
Newlyweds leaving for their honeymoon boarding a Trans-Canada Air Lines plane, Montreal, 1946
Bridal Journey in Hardanger by Adolph Tidemand and Hans Gude, a romanticized view of the customs of 19th-century Norwegian society. Adolph Tidemand & Hans Gude - Bridal Procession on the Hardangerfjord - Google Art Project.jpg
Bridal Journey in Hardanger by Adolph Tidemand and Hans Gude, a romanticized view of the customs of 19th-century Norwegian society.

In Western culture and some westernized countries' cultures, the custom of a newlywed couple's going on a holiday together originated in early-19th-century Great Britain. Upper-class couples would take a "bridal tour", sometimes accompanied by friends or family, to visit relatives who had not been able to attend the wedding. [1] The practice soon spread to the European continent and was known in France as a voyage à la façon anglaise (translation: English-style voyage), from the 1820s onwards.

Honeymoons in the modern sensea pure holiday voyage undertaken by the couplebecame widespread during the Belle Époque , [2] as one of the first instances of modern mass tourism.

Etymology

The honeymoon was originally the period following marriage, "characterized by love and happiness", as attested since 1546. [3] The word may allude to "the idea that the first month of marriage is the sweetest". [4]

According to a different version of the Oxford English Dictionary:

The first month after marriage, when there is nothing but tenderness and pleasure (Samuel Johnson); originally having no reference to the period of a month, but comparing the mutual affection of newly married persons to the changing moon which is no sooner full than it begins to wane; now, usually, the holiday spent together by a newly married couple, before settling down at home.

Today, honeymoon has a positive meaning, but originally it may have referred to the inevitable waning of love like a phase of the moon. In 1552, Richard Huloet wrote:

Hony mone, a term proverbially applied to such as be newly married, which will not fall out at the first, but th'one loveth the other at the beginning exceedingly, the likelihood of their exceadinge love appearing to aswage, ye which time the vulgar people call the hony mone.

Abcedarium Anglico-Latinum pro Tyrunculis [3]

In many modern languages, the word for a honeymoon is a calque (e.g., French : lune de miel) or near-calque.[ citation needed ] Persian has a similar word, mah-e-asal, which translates to "month of honey" or "moon of honey". [5]

A fanciful 19th-century theory claimed that the word alludes to "the custom of the higher order of the Teutones... to drink Mead, or Metheglin, a beverage made with honey, for thirty days after every wedding", [6] [7] but the theory is now rejected. [8] [9]

Effects

One 2015 scholarly study concluded that going on a honeymoon is associated with a somewhat lower risk of divorce, regardless of how much or little is spent on the honeymoon itself. [10] However, high spending and incurring significant debt on other wedding-related expenses, such as engagement rings and wedding ceremonies, is associated with a high risk of divorce. [10]

Solomoon or unimoon

An emerging 21st-century travel trend is the "solomoon" or "unimoon", a separate, solo holiday the newlyweds take without their spouse. [11] [12] The New Zealand Herald cites a report by The New York Times [13] that such alternatives to honeymoons are "particularly suited for couples who just cannot agree on where to go". [14] (This trend contrasts with the use by a jilted bride or groom of the travel reservations intended for the honeymoon, as popularly depicted in such films as Sex and the City: The Movie (2008), in which Carrie Bradshaw turns her ruined Mexican honeymoon into a girls' trip, [15] and Like Father (2018), in which a bride left at the altar travels with her absentee father on the cruise meant for her honeymoon. [16] )

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