Jonny Benjamin

Last updated

Jonathan Bernard Benjamin MBE [1] [2] (born 31 January 1987) is a British mental health campaigner, author and vlogger. In January 2014 he launched a social media campaign called Find 'Mike' to search for a stranger who had talked him out of taking his own life in 2008. The purpose of the campaign was to raise awareness of suicide and mental illness. It went viral and received global media attention. Within just two weeks Jonny found the stranger he was looking for, Neil Laybourn. The story of the campaign was made into a documentary film, The Stranger on the Bridge , that was released in May 2014. [3]

Contents

Background

Jonny Benjamin began having mental health problems at a young age and his parents first took him to see a psychologist when he was five. [4] He later developed depression at 16 and was eventually diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder, a combination of schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, in his early 20s. [5] He had also been experiencing the delusion that he was on his own version of the film, The Truman Show , [6] and was hospitalised as a result of his condition in January 2008. He ran away from the hospital intending to take his life by jumping off a bridge. A passer-by found him on Waterloo Bridge and talked him out of ending his life by suicide, which lasted long enough for the emergency services to arrive and return him to hospital. This incident became the focus of his 2014 campaign, Find Mike. [7]

Activism

In 2011, Benjamin started vlogging about his experiences of mental health issues on YouTube in order "to reach out to others with mental health difficulties." [5] In 2012 a book of his poems, Pill After Pill: Poems From A Schizophrenic Mind, was published. The poetry was written mostly during his stay in hospital in 2008. [8] [9]

By 2013 his vlogs had drawn thousands of views and he was awarded the first annual Janey Antoniou award by the mental health charity, Rethink Mental Illness, for his mental health campaigning. Of the motivation behind his work, Benjamin said: "I know that a lot of people are reluctant to get help, and a lot of that is because of stigma. But the only way we’ll get rid of stigma is if we are more open and talk about mental illness. There is no shame or embarrassment in it. These are human experiences." [10] He has also presented a BBC Three documentary about mental illness. [11]

Find Mike campaign and media coverage

On 14 January 2014 Jonny Benjamin launched a social media campaign called Find 'Mike' with the charity Rethink Mental Illness. He launched a public campaign to find the stranger that had talked him out of jumping off a bridge, to raise awareness of mental health and suicide. He did not know the man's name, so nicknamed him "Mike". He later said of it: "I wanted to let people know that it’s ok to have suicidal thoughts and feelings. I also hoped to show people that through talking about it, and by having someone else listen, it is possible to overcome the darkness that overwhelms a person when they feel helpless. This is something that I learned from my exchange with Neil on the bridge six years ago, and a message that I’ve been trying to pass on to others." [12] The campaign was supported by various high-profile people including Stephen Fry, Boy George, and British Prime Minister David Cameron. Millions of people shared the story online and the hashtag "FindMike" trended in the United Kingdom, South Africa, Australia and Canada.

Two weeks after the campaign was launched, Benjamin was reunited with the stranger, a man called Neil Laybourn. He came forward after his girlfriend saw the plea on Facebook. [12] Laybourn said of the incident on the bridge that "maybe it was fate, it was easy to make a connection. There are people who would walk past and there are those who would have taken action. I am proud that I was in the crowd that took action." [13]

A documentary film about the campaign produced by Postcard Productions was released in May 2014. [14]

Subsequent campaigns

In 2016 Benjamin launched ThinkWell, an initiative to bring mental health education into schools. [15] ThinkWell is designed to educate young people about mental health and break down the stigma surrounding mental illness and suicide through school workshops. Each session is delivered by a trained workshop leader and a qualified therapist. [15] In the same year, he travelled to India as part of his campaigns to change attitudes and reduce stigma. [16] He filmed his journey to India for a short documentary on his YouTube channel. [17]

Benjamin gives talks in schools, prisons and hospitals to try and inspire others who may be struggling. [18] Since 2017, Neil Laybourn has worked full-time for Benjamin's campaigns, and the two also ran the London Marathon together in the same year. [19]

Books

In May 2018, Benjamin published his memoir, titled The Stranger on the Bridge. [20]

His second book, The Book of Hope, came out in April 2021. The anthology is designed to offer inspiration to others going through hard times. Celebrities including Olympic athlete Kelly Holmes, poet Lemn Sissay, musician Frank Turner, podcaster Elizabeth Day, personal trainer Joe Wicks, and vlogger Zoe Sugg have contributed, writing about what gives them optimism in life. [21]

Charity

The youth mental health charity Beyond was founded by Benjamin and Laybourn in 2018. [22] In February 2021 the charity hosted the UK's first ever mental health and wellbeing festival for schools. [23] More than 1,000 schools and colleges from across the UK and beyond took part in the festival which consisted of workshops, teaching resources and expert sessions. [24]

Personal life

Benjamin has relapsed with his mental health several times. Benjamin cites medication, mindfulness and therapy as having helped him. He particularly advocates the use of Compassion-focused therapy as something that has been really helpful. [25] Benjamin has a diagnosis of irritable bowel syndrome. [26] He is openly gay [27] and is of Jewish ancestry. [28]

Honours

Related Research Articles

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Frank Bruno</span> British boxer (born 1961)

Franklin Roy Bruno is a British former professional boxer who competed from 1982 to 1996. He had a highly publicised and eventful career. The pinnacle of Bruno's boxing career was winning the WBC heavyweight title from Oliver McCall at Wembley Stadium in 1995, in what was his fourth world championship challenge. Bruno faced multiple top-rated heavyweights throughout his career, including two defeats against Mike Tyson in 1989 and 1996, and a defeat against fellow Briton Lennox Lewis in 1993.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Beyond Blue</span> Australian mental health and wellbeing support organisation

Beyond Blue is an Australian mental health and wellbeing support organisation. They provide support programs to address issues related to depression, suicide, anxiety disorders and other related mental illnesses.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Suicide prevention</span> Collective efforts to reduce the incidence of suicide

Suicide prevention is a collection of efforts to reduce the risk of suicide. Suicide is often preventable, and the efforts to prevent it may occur at the individual, relationship, community, and society level. Suicide is a serious public health problem that can have long-lasting effects on individuals, families, and communities. Preventing suicide requires strategies at all levels of society. This includes prevention and protective strategies for individuals, families, and communities. Suicide can be prevented by learning the warning signs, promoting prevention and resilience, and committing to social change.

Suicide intervention is a direct effort to prevent a person or persons from attempting to take their own life or lives intentionally.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Mind (charity)</span> British mental health charity

Mind is a mental health charity in England and Wales. Founded in 1946 as the National Association for Mental Health (NAMH), it celebrated its 70th anniversary in 2016.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Rethink Mental Illness</span>

Rethink Mental Illness Is a British charity that seeks to improve the lives of people severely affected by mental illness through their networks of local groups and services, information and campaigns. Its stated goal is to make sure everyone severely affected by mental illness has a good quality of life.

A suicide crisis, suicidal crisis or potential suicide is a situation in which a person is attempting to kill themselves or is seriously contemplating or planning to do so. It is considered by public safety authorities, medical practice, and emergency services to be a medical emergency, requiring immediate suicide intervention and emergency medical treatment. Suicidal presentations occur when an individual faces an emotional, physical, or social problem they feel they cannot overcome and considers suicide to be a solution. Clinicians usually attempt to re-frame suicidal crises, point out that suicide is not a solution and help the individual identify and solve or tolerate the problems.

Post-schizophrenic depression is a "depressive episode arising in the aftermath of a schizophrenic illness where some low-level schizophrenic symptoms may still be present." Someone that has post-schizophrenic depression experiences both symptoms of depression and can also continue showing mild symptoms of schizophrenia. Unfortunately, depression is a common symptom found in patients with schizophrenia and can fly under the radar for years before others become aware of its presence in a patient. However, very little research has been done on the subject, meaning there are few answers to how it should be systematically diagnosed, treated, or what course the illness will take. Some scientists would entirely deny the existence of post-schizophrenic depression, insisting it is a phase in schizophrenia as a whole. As of late, post-schizophrenic depression has become officially recognized as a syndrome and is considered a sub-type of schizophrenia.

Vandrevala Foundation is an NGO established by Cyrus Vandrevala and Priya Vandrevala in 2008. In 2009, the foundation launched the "Mental Health - India" initiative to raise awareness and provide services for emotionally distressed individuals.

<i>Time to Change</i> (mental health campaign)

Time to Change was a mental health campaign in England, launched in 2007 with the objective of reducing mental health-related stigma and discrimination. Time to Change closed on 31 March 2021.

Mental illnesses, also known as psychiatric disorders, are often inaccurately portrayed in the media. Films, television programs, books, magazines, and news programs often stereotype the mentally ill as being violent, unpredictable, or dangerous, unlike the great majority of those who experience mental illness. As media is often the primary way people are exposed to mental illnesses, when portrayals are inaccurate, they further perpetuate stereotypes, stigma, and discriminatory behavior. When the public stigmatizes the mentally ill, people with mental illnesses become less likely to seek treatment or support for fear of being judged or rejected by the public. However, with proper support, not only are most of those with psychiatric disorders able to function adequately in society, but many are able to work successfully and make substantial contributions to society.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Igor Galynker</span> American psychiatrist

Igor Galynker is an American psychiatrist, clinician and researcher. His research interests include bipolar disorder, suicide prevention, and the role of family dynamics in psychiatric illness. He has published on these topics both in professional journals and in the lay press. His recent research has been devoted to describing Suicide Crisis Syndrome (SCS), an acute suicidal cognitive-affective state predictive of imminent suicidal behavior.

The subject of mental health in association football has been described as a "stigma" in the sport, although other professional sports are also affected. Professional footballers suffer more from symptoms of depression and anxiety than the general public.

The Stranger on the Bridge is a 2015 documentary film, produced and directed by Sam Forsdike and Richard Bentley of Postcard Productions. It was shown on Channel 4 on 4 May 2014.

In colleges and universities in the United States, suicide is one of the most common causes of death among students. Each year, approximately 24,000 college students attempt suicide while 1,100 students succeed in their attempt, making suicide the second-leading cause of death among U.S. college students. Roughly 12% of college students report the occurrence of suicide ideation during their first four years in college, with 2.6% percent reporting persistent suicide ideation. 65% of college students reported that they knew someone who has either attempted or died by suicide, showing that the majority of students on college campuses are exposed to suicide or suicidal attempts.

Suicide awareness is a proactive effort to raise awareness around suicidal behaviors. It is focused on reducing social stigmas and ambiguity by bringing attention to suicide statistically and sociologically, and by encouraging positive dialogue and engagement to prevent suicide. Suicide awareness is linked to suicide prevention as both address suicide education and the dissemination of information to ultimately decrease the rate of suicide. Awareness is the first stage that can ease the need for prevention. Awareness signifies a fundamental consciousness of the threat, while prevention focuses on stopping the act. Suicide awareness is not a medical engagement but a combination of medical, social, emotional and financial counseling. Suicide awareness in adolescents focuses on the age group between 10–24 years, beginning with the onset of puberty.

Hope For The Day (HFTD) is a Chicago-based non-profit organization focusing on proactive suicide prevention by providing outreach and mental health education to empower the conversation. The organization uses concerts, workshops, and events, and innovative partnerships to provide outreach and education.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Kevin Hines</span> American suicide prevention speaker

John Kevin Hines is an American suicide prevention speaker who attempted suicide by jumping from the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, California in 2000 at the age of 19. His story gained major media coverage and he has since become a motivational speaker and advocate for suicide prevention.

Jazz Thornton is a New Zealand mental health activist, author, speaker, TikToker and filmmaker. Thornton co-founded a suicide prevention organisation, Voices of Hope, with eating disorder activist Genevieve Mora. Thornton has written three books: an autobiography Stop Surviving, Start Fighting,My Journey Starts Here, a guided journal for improving well-being, and Letters to you, a book of letters to provide support, information, encouragement and tips on practical help for anyone suffering low moments. The 2020 New Zealand documentary The Girl on the Bridge deals with her struggles with mental health. In the documentary, Thornton meditated on losing her friend Jess to suicide.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on suicide rates</span>

Suicide cases have remained constant or decreased since the outbreak of the COVID-19 pandemic. According to a study done on twenty-one high and upper-middle-income countries in April–July 2020, the number of suicides has remained static. These results were attributed to a variety of factors, including the composition of mental health support, financial assistance, having families and communities work diligently to care for at-risk individuals, discovering new ways to connect through the use of technology, and having more time spent with family members which aided in the strengthening of their bonds. Despite this, there has been an increase in isolation, fear, stigma, abuse, and economic fallout as a result of COVID-19. Self-reported levels of depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts were elevated during the initial stay-at-home periods, according to empirical evidence from several countries, but this does not appear to have translated into an increase in suicides.

References

  1. https://www.thegazette.co.uk/notice/2673967
  2. 1 2 "Jonny Benjamin: How mental health campaigner went from suicide to MBE" . The Independent. 31 December 2016. Archived from the original on 14 June 2022. Retrieved 12 September 2018.
  3. Finding Mike Film, "Finding Mike-The Film" Archived 1 July 2014 at the Wayback Machine , "Rethink Mental Illness"
  4. "Campaigner Jonny Benjamin Launches Mental Health Festival To Help Kids During Lockdown". LadBible. 15 January 2021.
  5. 1 2 Hara, O'Mary (18 September 2013). "Schizophrenia: I felt like I'd been given a life sentence". The Guardian.
  6. Rose, Damon (20 November 2013). "I thought I was on The Truman Show". BBC Ouch.
  7. "Jonny Benjamin Is On A Search For The Man Who Saved Him From A Suicide Attempt". HuffPost Live. 17 January 2014.
  8. "Pill After Pill: Poems From A Schizophrenic Mind", Amazon.com, 2 February 2012
  9. Benjamin, Jonathan (2012). Pill After Pill: Poems from a Schizophrenic Mind. Chipmunka Publishing. p. 40. ISBN   978-1-84991-738-4.
  10. "Jonny Benjamin wins inaugural Janey Antoniou Award". Mental Health Today. 4 November 2013.
  11. "#findmike search: London blogger tracks down stranger who saved him". BBC News. 30 January 2014.
  12. 1 2 Greenhouse, Emily (15 March 2014). "THE NEGLECTED SUICIDE EPIDEMIC". The New Yorker.
  13. Siddique, Haroon (30 January 2014). "Man reunited with stranger who talked him down from suicide attempt". The Guardian.
  14. "Finding Mike-The Film". Rethink Mental Illness. Archived from the original on 1 July 2014. Retrieved 25 May 2014.
  15. 1 2 Grant, Katie (9 January 2016). "Jonny Benjamin's journey from suicidal despair to mental health envoy" . The Independent. Archived from the original on 14 June 2022.
  16. "Jonny Benjamin: How My Life Has Changed Since Stranger on a Bridge". Lifestyle Australia. 26 August 2016.
  17. Benjamin, Jonny,"A Passage Through India" "YouTube", 4 September 2016
  18. Wallop, Harry (10 January 2016). "I was saved from suicide but not suicidal thoughts". The Telegraph. Archived from the original on 10 January 2016.
  19. Benjamin, Jonny (18 May 2018). "How the stranger who saved my life became my friend - and fellow mental health campaigner". The Telegraph. Retrieved 12 September 2018.
  20. "Jonny Benjamin: From suicidal despair to mental health campaigner". GQ Magazine. 5 May 2018. Retrieved 12 September 2018.
  21. Benjamin, Jonny; Pflüger, Britt (15 April 2021). The Book of Hope: 101 Voices on Overcoming Adversity. ISBN   9781509846382.
  22. "Jonny Benjamin's New Charity to Bring Mental Health into Schools". WellDoing. 3 October 2018.
  23. "Children's Mental Health Week: Jonny Benjamin tells us his story". BBC. 3 October 2018.
  24. "Organisers hope schools festival 'could kickstart mental health revolution'". Express and Star. 30 January 2021.
  25. "Stranger on the Bridge: with Mental Health Campaigner Jonny Benjamin". Glamour. 8 October 2019.
  26. "Stranger on the Bridge: with Mental Health Campaigner Jonny Benjamin". Hoffman Institute. 10 May 2018.
  27. Archived at Ghostarchive and the Wayback Machine : I Thought I Was In The Truman Show | Minutes With | UNILAD | @LADbible TV. YouTube .
  28. Archived at Ghostarchive and the Wayback Machine : I Thought I Was In The Truman Show | Minutes With | UNILAD | @LADbible TV. YouTube .