He's a Stud, She's a Slut

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He's a Stud, She's a Slut, and 49 Other Double Standards Every Woman Should Know
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Author Jessica Valenti
CountryUnited States
LanguageEnglish
PublisherSeal Press
Publication date
May 6, 2008
Pages224
ISBN 978-1580052450
Preceded by Full Frontal Feminism  
Followed by Yes Means Yes  

He's a Stud, She's a Slut, and 49 Other Double Standards Every Woman Should Know is a 2008 book by feminist writer Jessica Valenti. The 244-page work, commenting on 50 double-standards in expectations for women, is Valenti's second book. [1]

Reception

New York magazine's Vulture vertical said Valenti "delivers thoughtful observations on serious under-the-radar issues." [2] [3] Bustle named the book to a 2017 list of best books on mansplaining: "5 Books To Give The Men In Your Life So You Don't Have To Keep Explaining It." [4]

In The New York Times , Liesl Schillinger compared Valenti's book to a work published the same year by conservative author Kathleen Parker, noting the two books mentioned a number of the same studies and cultural touchstones, just interpreted to opposite conclusions. [1] Parker argues contemporary American culture disregards the needs of boys and men while Valenti—Schillinger suggests, more persuasively—argues deference to the "delicate male ego" is overprioritized against the welfare of women. [1]

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References

  1. 1 2 3 Schillinger, Liesl (2008-07-13). "Endangered Species or Still the Enemy? (Published 2008)". The New York Times. ISSN   0362-4331 . Retrieved 2020-12-18.
  2. "'He's a Stud, She's a Slut' and Jessica Valenti Is a Force". Vulture. New York Magazine. 4 June 2008. Retrieved 24 February 2018.
  3. Millard, Elizabeth (14 April 2008). "HE'S A STUD, SHE'S A SLUT, AND 49 OTHER DOUBLE STANDARDS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW". forewordreviews.com. Foreword Reviews Magazine. Retrieved 25 February 2018.
  4. Trombetta, Sadie (January 10, 2017). "What Is Mansplaining? A Reading Guide". Bustle. Retrieved 2018-03-05.