Walker (escort)

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Walker is a term coined by Women's Wear Daily publisher John Fairchild to describe a man, often gay, who escorts fashionable women to societal events when their husbands are disinclined to attend. The term originated to describe Jerry Zipkin, a New York real estate heir who became a sought-after confidant and advisor to New York society, and eventually became a close confidant of Nancy Reagan. [1] [2] [3]

The practice of using a walker stemmed from the social undesirability in the mid-20th century of women appearing unaccompanied, and the social impossibility of gay men appearing as a couple. The arrangement allowed both parties to socialize with greater freedom. With changing social practices that removed such stigmas, the practice was dying out by the late 20th century. Publicists or agents increasingly assumed the duty of walker. [2] It is similar in function to the eighteenth-century Cicisbeo.

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References

  1. Allen, Jennifer (November 30, 1980). "Nancy Reagan and the Flamboyant Prince Of New York Society". New York Daily News. Retrieved 25 April 2021.
  2. 1 2 Landman, Beth (April 17, 2019). "The Last of New York City's "Walkers": "They Knew Everyone's Secrets"". The Hollywood Reporter. Retrieved 25 April 2021.
  3. Shelnman, Mort. "The Consummate Chum: Jerome Zipkin Dies at 80". Women's Wear Daily. Retrieved 25 April 2021.