Karyl McBride

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Karyl McBride
OccupationAuthor, marriage and family therapist
Education
Notable works
  • Will I Ever Be Good Enough?
  • Will I Ever Be Free of You?
Website
www.karylmcbridephd.com

Karyl McBride is an American author and marriage and family therapist. She has written several books about narcissistic relationships, including Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers.

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Career

McBride has had a forty-year career as a licensed marriage and family therapist. [2] Her practice has focused on recovery from the effects of relationships with narcissists, and her clients have mostly been women. [3]

She specialized in treating daughters of narcissistic mothers for over 17 years before writing the self-help book Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers in 2008. [4] In 2012, she launched online workshops on her website. [5] McBride's second book, Will I Ever Be Free of You? How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist and Heal Your Family, was published in 2015 [6] and featured in The New York Times Well Book Club. [7]

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References

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