Aaron Stark

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Aaron Stark
Born1979 (age 4445)
NationalityAmerican
Education North High School (dropped out in sophomore year)
Known forMental health advocacy, nearly committing a mass shooting
Children4

Aaron Stark (born 1979) [1] [2] is an American mental health advocate [3] who is best known for planning but not following through with a mass shooting in 1996. [1] [3]

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Early life

Stark spent most of his childhood in Denver, Colorado. [2] According to Stark, he had grown up in a dysfunctional family: his biological father, a Vietnam veteran, [2] was abusive and violent towards him, his brother, and his mother, [2] while his stepfather and mother struggled with substance abuse. [4] [5] [6] According to Stark, he had seen his mother being beaten and raped during his childhood. [7] Due to his family being constantly on the run from law enforcement, [6] Stark never attended the same school for more than six months, and went to 40 different schools. [3] [8] According to himself, he was obese, awkward, dirty (because his home lacked running water), [9] and was bullied at school. [2] [3] [10] He began cutting himself at the age of 14 or 15. [6] After being kicked out of his house at the age of 15 or 16 and becoming homeless, and resorting to sleeping in his friend's shed, [3] he sought mental help. [6] [8] [11] Social services allegedly brought his abusive mother to the meeting, who accused him of fabricating his mental health issues. [3] Reportedly, his mother had told him after the meeting that she would buy him sharper razor blades if he planned to slit his wrists to commit suicide. [6] [9] According to Stark, after he had sought mental help a second time, his psychologist told him that nothing could be done, and refused him inpatient care. [3] [5] [7] He dropped out of high school at age 17. [2]

Planned shooting and dissuasion

In 1996, while homeless, Stark began planning to attack either North High School or the food court of a nearby mall and to then commit suicide afterwards. [2] [6] Stark had planned to trade cannabis to obtain a gun from his family's drug dealer. [3] [6] According to him, his primary motive was to make his parents feel shame for creating him, and not out of a specific hatred of anyone in the school or mall. [2] [11]

Stark was days away from committing the mass murder when he changed his mind. [4] [6] His friend, Mike Stacey, [2] who was unaware of Stark's plans, [4] had invited Stark in for a shower and some food, [1] after Stark had visited him with the intent of saying goodbye. [3] He ended up staying for five days at Stacey's house. [2] Stark credits this incident, and his inability to obtain weapons, with stopping him from committing the mass shooting. [2] [7] [12] [13] [14]

Months after the incident, Stark was on the verge of suicide again, but was dissuaded after his friend Amber Schneider [2] invited him to a movie and baked him a blueberry-peach pie for his birthday. [5] [12] [15] [16]

Personal life

External videos
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Stark lives in Denver, Colorado, [2] is married, [1] has four children, [2] and maintains friendships with both Schneider and Stacey. [2] [3]

Stark went public about his former plans to commit a mass shooting via an open letter to 9News in Denver in 2018, one day after the Parkland shooting. [12] [17] A TEDx conference speech Stark made has gone viral, [9] with over 15 million views on YouTube as of March 2024. [6]

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