Bottoms v. Bottoms

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Bottoms v. Bottoms
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Court Supreme Court of Virginia
Full case namePamela Kay Bottoms v. Sharon Lynne Bottoms
DecidedApril 21, 1995 (1995-04-21)
Citation(s)457 S.E.2d 102
Case history
Appealed from 444 S.E.2d 276 (1994)
Court membership
Judge(s) sitting Christian Compton, Barbara Milano Keenan, Henry Hudson Whiting, Elizabeth Bermingham Lacy
Case opinions
Decision byCompton
DissentKeenan

Bottoms v. Bottoms, 457 S.E.2d 102 (Va. 1995), was a landmark child custody case in Virginia that awarded custody of the child to the grandmother instead of the mother, primarily because the mother was a lesbian. [1] In April 1993, Kay Bottoms sued her daughter, Sharon Bottoms, for custody of Sharon Bottoms' son, Tyler Doustou. On April 5, 1993, Judge Buford Parsons ruled that Sharon Bottoms was an unfit parent and Kay Bottoms was awarded custody of her grandson. Sharon Bottoms was allowed visitation rights two days a week, but Tyler was not allowed in his mother's home or to have any contact with his mother's partner." [2]

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Background

Sharon Bottoms married Dennis Doustou when she was 18. Though they separated a few months later, Sharon discovered she was pregnant. [3] On July 5, 1991, Tyler Doustou was born.

Sharon lived with her mother, Kay Bottoms, for the first few months after Tyler was born in Henrico County. On Memorial Day, 1992, Sharon met April Wade at a picnic. They began dating and in September of that year, Sharon and Tyler moved in with April. A month after that, Sharon and April had a commitment ceremony, pledging to stay together for life. [3]

Sharon Bottoms initially struggled with the responsibilities of raising an infant, so Tyler spent much of his early life with his grandmother. [4] However, after the commitment ceremony, Sharon pledged to be a better mother to Tyler. As such, she told Kay that she would be seeing less of Tyler. In response, in March 1993, Kay Bottoms "asked the local family court for custody and got it." [3]

Hearing

At the circuit court appeal hearing in April 1993, Sharon Bottoms admitted that she had hit Tyler twice, cursed in front of him, and had lived on welfare for a year.

Regarding her relationship with her female partner, April Wade, "Sharon acknowledged that she and April -- whom Tyler calls "Addle"—had kissed and gently caressed each other in front of the boy." Court-appointed psychologists did not find that Tyler had suffered ill effects from being in the care of his mother and her partner. Moreover, Dennis Doustou testified on behalf of Sharon Bottoms, saying of Kay Bottoms to reporters: "The woman is cold-hearted...It's no reason to take a child from his mother. That's totally wrong." [3]

Sharon Bottoms additionally testified that Kay Bottoms' boyfriend, who lived with Kay, had sexually molested her when she was young. [5]

Verdict

The Virginia Circuit Court judge Buford M. Parsons ruled that, since homosexual sex was illegal in Virginia, Sharon Bottoms was a criminal because she "admitted in this court that she is living in an active homosexual relationship." "Parsons wrote that "the mother's conduct is illegal.... Her conduct is immoral and ... renders her an unfit parent." Sharon Bottoms was allowed visitation rights two days a week, but Tyler was not allowed in his mother's home or to have any contact with his mother's partner, April Wade." [2]

Appeal

The Court of Appeals of Virginia reversed the ruling the next year, granting Sharon Bottoms custody of her son, saying "The fact that a mother is a lesbian and has engaged in illegal sexual acts does not alone justify taking custody of a child from her and awarding the child to a non-parent." [6] However, on further appeal, the Virginia Supreme Court returned custody to the grandmother. [7]

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References

  1. ↑ "Judge rules lesbian unfit parent". Sarasota Herald-Tribune. The Associated Press. September 8, 1993.
  2. 1 2 Gay rights article
  3. 1 2 3 4 "Fighting For Tyler: A Lesbian Loses Her Son - To Her Own Mother" . Retrieved 19 December 2015.
  4. ↑ Hewitt, Bill (27 September 1993). "Fighting for Tyler". PEOPLE.com. Retrieved 16 September 2017.
  5. ↑ Diane Anderson-Minshall, "Court Cases That Changed Our World", The Advocate , Aug. 22, 2012.
  6. ↑ "Virginia court grants lesbian custody of son". The Milwaukee Journal. Associated Press. June 21, 1994.
  7. ↑ "Bottoms v Bottoms". Library of Virginia. Retrieved 24 August 2018.
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