Decoration Day Ladies of Mississippi

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Decoration Day in Mississippi
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Decoration Day Ladies: (Seated, left to right) Jane Fontaine, Martha Elizabeth Morton; (Standing, left to right) Kate McCarthy Hill Cooper, Augusta Murdock Sykes Cox.
Years active1862 through 1866
CountryUnited States
Major figuresKate McCarthy Hill Cooper
Jane Fontaine
Martha Elizabeth Morton
Augusta Murdock Sykes Cox
InfluencesDecoration Day (tradition)
Influenced Memorial Day

In the Antebellum South, families and churches had a long tradition of cleaning the burial sites of their cherished dead and decorating the graves with flowers. [1] These decoration days usually took place in spring or early summer when flowers were in full bloom and often included religious memorial services. [1]

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Connection to the American Civil War

Following the Battle of Shiloh in April 1862, during the American Civil War, Columbus, Mississippi was selected as a hospital center to treat the wounded and sick soldiers from both the Confederate and Union armies. [2] :127–131 Soldiers who did not survive medical care in Columbus were interred at Friendship Cemetery. When the war ended in 1865, burial records indicated that up to 1,500 soldiers had been interred in Friendship Cemetery, with up to 150 of those being Union soldiers. [2] :127–131

Decoration Day

As time past, the graves of Civil War casualties became overgrown by weeds throughout the South. In Columbus, three ladies took on the responsibility of visiting Friendship Cemetery each spring to clear overgrowth from these graves and began the annual tradition of decorating the graves with flowers. [2] :127–131

Decoration Day ladies

Twelve Gables where Decoration Day plans were made in Columbus, Mississippi Twelve Gables 1975, Columbus, Mississippi.jpg
Twelve Gables where Decoration Day plans were made in Columbus, Mississippi
  • Martha Elizabeth "Matt" Morton (b. Dec. 1828 – d. Aug. 1904). [3] In 1838, the Mortons arrived in Columbus, Mississippi from Georgia and purchased their home, known as "Twelve Gables". One of their four children, Martha, never married. Her brother, a Confederate military officer, was killed during the Battle of Shiloh. After her father died in 1873, Martha became the head of the household and continued to live at Twelve Gables with her mother, who died in 1888. [3] It was at Twelve Gables where this trio of ladies gathered to lay out their plans for a formal Decoration Day at Friendship Cemetery. [4]
  • Kate McCarthy Hill Cooper Heath [5]
  • Francis Jane Butler Garrett Fontaine [5]
  • A fourth lady, Augusta Murdock Sykes Cox (b. Dec. 1841 – d. June 1921), was the widow of a Confederate officer – Dr. William Edmunds Sykes –who was killed in action near Decatur, Alabama in 1864. [6] Mrs. Sykes encouraged the other ladies to decorate the 40 marked graves of Union soldiers in Friendship Cemetery the same as the 1,400 marked Confederate graves. [7]

The efforts of these ladies expanded to a group of women (both young and old) throughout Columbus that resulted in the creation of a formal Decoration Day on April 25, 1866. [2] :127–131 On that date, a large group of women from Columbus proceeded to Friendship Cemetery. At the head of the procession were the youngest women and girls dressed in white and carrying flowers and wreaths. They were followed by matrons wearing black to mourn their dead relatives. At the rear of the procession were horse-drawn carriages bearing elderly matrons. [2] :127–131

The first formal Decoration Day event was described by James A. Stevens (ed), in the [Columbus] Mississippi Index on April 26, 1866, after the procession arrived at Friendship Cemetery:

The ladies assembled around the graves of the soldiers in the form of a square; from the center of the ground, an elaborate and eloquent address was delivered by Rev. G.T. Stainback, and following it, a fervent prayer by Rev. A.S. Andrews. The ladies then performed the beautiful and touching duty of decorating the graves with flowers. … There were over 1400 graves to be decorated. ... We were glad to see that no distinction was made between our own dead and about forty Federal soldiers, who slept their last sleep by them. It proved the exalted, unselfish tone of the female character. Confederate and Federal — once enemies, now friends — receiving this tribute of respect. [2] :127–131

This event marked the first recorded instance where the graves of both Confederate and Union soldiers were decorated. [8]

As word spread throughout the US, the Columbus ladies' selfless act of kindness – to treat both Confederate and Union dead as equals – inspired poet Francis Miles Finch to write the poem, The Blue and the Gray, which was published in an 1867 edition of The Atlantic Monthly . [5] [9]

In 1867, the remains of all Union soldiers were exhumed from Friendship Cemetery and were reinterred in Corinth National Cemetery. [10]

Legacy

Confederate Decoration Day Monument in Friendship Cemetery Confederate Decoration Day Monument.jpg
Confederate Decoration Day Monument in Friendship Cemetery

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