Divorce Busting

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Divorce Busting
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Author Michele Weiner-Davis
Language English
Subject Divorce Marriage Self-help
Publisher Simon & Schuster
Publication date
1992
Publication place United States of America
ISBN 978-0-671-79725-6

Divorce Busting:A Step-By-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again is a self-help book written by Michele Weiner-Davis. [1]

The book, which became a bestseller, was inspired after obtaining positive results in therapy with married couples. The book also challenged mainstream psychotherapeutic techniques at the time. [1]

Weiner-Davis maintains throughout the book that marriages are worth saving and when relationships are in a crisis situation an action-oriented approach needs to be taken in order to save the relationship. [1] Success of the book Divorce Busting lead to the opening of the "Divorce Busting Center" that utilizes telephone coaching and free online community forums. [2] [ failed verification ]

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References

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  2. Diane Cole Divorceproof Your Marriage U.S. News and World Report 12/17/06 Archived December 5, 2009, at the Wayback Machine