Sloppy seconds (or slops in Australian slang [1] ) is a slang phrase for when a man has sexual intercourse with a (female or male [2] ) partner shortly after that person has had intercourse with someone else, and is therefore wet or "sloppy". [3] [4] The phrase "buttered bun" is sometimes used to refer to said orifice. [5] [6] The practice is also referred to as a "wet deck". [7]
The term has since been stretched as a derogatory metaphor to demean someone having a relationship with a person who had previously been dating another individual within the peer group, [8] analogous to the way female virginity has historically been correlated with purity.
In November 2022, South Australian Premier Peter Malinauskas was criticised after using the term in a press conference. He apologised, and said he was not aware that it was a sexual term. [9]