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Sloppy seconds (or slops in Australian slang [1] ) is a slang phrase for when a man has sexual intercourse with a female or male [2] partner who already has received another man's penis in the relevant orifice and is therefore wet or "sloppy". [3] [4] The phrase "buttered bun" is sometimes used to refer to said orifice. [5] [6] The practice is also referred to as a "wet deck". [7]

The term is used, by extension, to refer to any act of entering into a sexual relationship with a person who had previously been in a sexual relationship with someone else in one's peer group. [8]

In November 2022, South Australian Premier Peter Malinauskas was criticised after using the term in a press conference. He apologised, and said he was not aware that it was a sexual term. [9]

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  9. SA Premier Peter Malinauskas criticised over 'sloppy seconds' remark about AFL round win, ABC News, 15 November, 2022