Dear Abby

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Dear Abby is an American advice column founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips under the pen name "Abigail Van Buren" and carried on today by her daughter, Jeanne Phillips, who now owns the legal rights to the pen name.

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History

According to Pauline Phillips, she came up with the pen name Abigail Van Buren by combining the name of Biblical figure Abigail in the Book of Samuel, with the last name of former US president Martin Van Buren.

The column was syndicated by the McNaught Syndicate from 1956 until 1966, when it moved to Universal Press Syndicate. Dear Abby's current syndication company claims the column is "well-known for sound, compassionate advice, delivered with the straightforward style of a good friend." [1]

By 1987, over 1,200 newspapers ran the column. [2]

Abby was born Pauline Esther Friedman, and her twin sister was born Esther Pauline Friedman. Abby was known as Popo, and her sister was Eppie [3] (a nickname from E.P.). [4]

Ask Ann Landers

Pauline Phillips started her Dear Abby column a few months after her twin sister, Eppie Lederer, took over the Ask Ann Landers column. This produced a rivalry and lengthy estrangement between the two sisters. [5]

On February 13, 1987, the Chicago Tribune announced that the Ann Landers column was moving to the Tribune, which had published the Dear Abby column for years. The Tribune ran both columns, Landers every day and Abby six days a week. [2]

In comparing the columns written by each of the sisters, the Jewish Women's Archive wrote that "Both columns were characterized by a straightforward tone, practical advice, and a firm but modern moral sensibility" and that "both women used humor, including sarcasm and one-liners, in their responses." [6]

Authorship changes

Pauline Phillips wrote the column herself until 1987, at which time her daughter, Jeanne Phillips, began writing the column with her. In December 2000, the elder Phillips wrote a column identifying her daughter as her "co-creator" and added, "I will continue to work on this column until my Maker calls me home." [7] Twenty months later, the Phillips family revealed that Pauline was suffering from Alzheimer's disease. [8]

Although the change in authorship took place in 2000, the official statement—which included adding "Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips" to the bottom of each column—was not made until July 2002. [9] [10]

Pauline Phillips died on January 16, 2013, aged 94. [11]

Impact

Dear Abby (which has a readership estimated at 110 million in 2016 [12] ) and which The New York Times described as "a staple in American households for decades," [13] has been accused of being out of step with changing times. A 2016 column seemed to place the blame on a teen girl who had been sexually assaulted, [12] and a 2018 column, which said that traditional Western names are preferable for newborns with half-Indian heritage, gave rise to accusations of xenophobia. [13] [14]

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References

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  2. 1 2 "Advice Columnist Ann Landers Leaves Chicago Sun-Times for rival Tribune". The Telegraph . Associated Press. February 14, 1987. Retrieved May 18, 2016.
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  5. Judd, Robin. "Ann Landers biography". Jewish Virtual Library.
  6. "Birth of advice-givers Ann Landers and Abigail Van Buren". Jewish Women's Archive.
  7. "Wife Makes Chilling Discovery of Husband's Online Child Porn - Dear Abby". December 11, 2000.
  8. "Dear Abby creator has Alzheimer's, family announces". Chicago Tribune . August 7, 2002.
  9. Josh Freed (July 18, 2002). "'Dear Abby' Daughter Takes Over". Editor & Publisher. Archived from the original on May 23, 2020. Retrieved August 5, 2019.
  10. "Dear Abby creator has Alzheimer's, family announces". Chicago Tribune. August 7, 2002. Last month, Jeanne Phillips began taking sole credit for the column.
  11. Martinez, Michael (March 7, 2013). "Pauline Phillips, longtime Dear Abby advice columnist, dies at 94". CNN.
  12. 1 2 "Dear Abby column says 'breakdown in communication' led to girl's rape". Chicago Tribune . April 14, 2016.
  13. 1 2 John Eligon (October 18, 2018). "No 'Foreign' Names for Children, Dear Abby Advised. Furious Parents Replied". The New York Times .
  14. "Couple Must Choose Between Practical and Unusual Names for Children - Dear Abby". uexpress. September 13, 2018.