Alok Vaid-Menon

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Alok Vaid-Menon
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Vaid-Menon in 2018
Born (1991-07-01) July 1, 1991 (age 34)
Education Stanford University (BA, MA)
Occupations
  • Writer
  • performance artist
  • media personality
Known forLGBTQ rights advocacy
Mother Jyotsna Vaid
Relatives Krishna Baldev Vaid (grandfather)
Urvashi Vaid (aunt)
Website alokvmenon.com

Alok Vaid-Menon (born July 1, 1991), also known mononymously as Alok (often stylized in all caps), is an American writer, performance artist, and media personality. Vaid-Menon is gender non-conforming and transfeminine, and uses singular they pronouns. [1] [2]

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Vaid-Menon's work addresses violence against trans and gender non-conforming people and critiques what they consider constraining gender norms. [2] They advocate for bodily diversity, gender neutrality, and self-determination. [3] [4] Vaid-Menon has performed in over 40 countries. [5]

Early life and education

Vaid-Menon grew up in College Station, Texas. Their father is a Malayali who was born in Malaysia and worked as a professor. Their Punjabi mother Jyotsna Vaid worked as a health care executive; she grew up in Punjab and immigrated to New York in the late 1960s when Vaid-Menon's maternal grandfather Krishna Baldev Vaid got a college job in the United States. [6] LGBTQ rights activist, lawyer, and writer Urvashi Vaid was Vaid-Menon's maternal aunt. [7]

Growing up, Vaid-Menon was bullied for their race and gender expression. [8] They said they felt unable to come out on their own terms because as a gender non-conforming person, they did not know they were different until they were punished for it and told who they were. [9] They developed their art practice at a young age in response to this harassment. "Making art gave me the permission to live. I needed somewhere to put the pain." [8] They began to use poetry and style to interrupt other peoples’ assumptions, challenge shame, and declare themself on their own terms. [10] Because they were not able to express themself visually for fear of safety, they began to share their art online and received supportive responses. [11]

After leaving Texas, Vaid-Menon attended Stanford University where they graduated with a BA in feminist, gender, and sexuality studies [12] [13] and comparative studies in race and ethnicity, as well as a masters in sociology in 2013. [14] [15]

In 2019 Vaid-Menon returned to College Station to host a Pride celebration with the local LGBTQ community in honor of the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. [16]

Career

Performance and writing

From 2013 to 2017, they performed with former Stanford classmate Janani Balasubramanian as a slam poetry collective named DarkMatter, engaging in queer South Asian themes. [17]

In 2017, Vaid-Menon released their first book of poetry, Femme in Public, about harassment against transfeminine people. [18] They toured the show internationally, partnering with local trans artists and organizations. [19]

In 2018, they participated in a roundtable on beauty and discrimination published in WSQ: Women's Studies Quarterly alongside Patricia Berne, Jamal T. Lewis, and others, stating: "As a gender non-conforming, transfeminine person, I am often told that I am ugly." [20]

In 2019, they completed an artist-in-residence at The Invisible Dog Art Center, performing "Strangers are Potential Friends" and hosting a "Valentine's Cry-In" to explore public grief and alternative forms of intimacy. [21] They have facilitated "Feelings Workshops" internationally. [22]

In 2020, they published Beyond the Gender Binary, writing: "The gender binary is cultural belief that there are only two distinct and opposite genders: man and woman. This belief is upheld by a system of power that exists to create conflict and division, not to celebrate creativity and diversity." [23]

Fashion

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Alok Fashion Collection 2017

In a 2019 interview with Business of Fashion, Vaid-Menon advocated for the complete degendering of fashion and beauty industries. [24] [25]

Vaid-Menon has designed gender-neutral fashion collections, which are known for their color and celebration of skirts and dresses as gender-neutral. [26] Fashion design became a "materialization of the life that [they were] living," a way to encapsulate what they were writing and thinking. [26] Their designs were at first inspired by imagining what they would wear if they didn't have to fear violence. [27] In their latest work, they are using fashion to challenge what kind of aesthetics are seen as natural and what are seen as artificial. [26]

Vaid-Menon has walked for several fashion brands for New York Fashion Week including Opening Ceremony, [28] Studio 189, [29] and Chromat. [30] They have modeled for several brands including Opening Ceremony, [31] Harry's, and Polaroid Eyewear. They have appeared in fashion magazines and editorials including Vogue, [32] Vogue Italia, [33] Bust magazine, Wussy Magazine , [8] and Paper magazine. [3]

Themes

Vaid-Menon's work addresses transmisogyny, violence against trans and gender non-conforming people, and TGNC representation. [34] [35] Writing in Vice, Vaid-Menon said: "The majority of people still believe that trans is what we look like, and not who we are. We are reduced to the spectacle of our appearance." [34] In The Caravan, they said: "There is a long history of trans-femme bodies being reduced to metaphor, to symbol…and seen as stand-ins for ideas, fantasies, and nightmares." [2] They have argued that gender non-conforming people, despite being the most visible in public, remain the most neglected by the mainstream LGBT movement. [3]

Their performance style incorporates stream-of-consciousness, soundscapes, political comedy, and an emotional range. [19] They have said their style, like their identity, is in constant flux and refuses easy categorization, [9] and that performance is one of the only spaces where people can actually be real. [21] They have described performance as "world-making" with "a commitment to vulnerability, play, interdependence, and magic." [9] They have said the power of performance is that it is ephemeral and can never be done the same way twice, [35] and that they use it to teach "theories and histories that have been submerged." [36] In a 2018 interview with the Chicago Tribune, Vaid-Menon said: "The problem with a category is that you reduce something as celestial as a human being into a word. Words only approximate truth, and art is where we go when we actually want truth." [37]

Vaid-Menon has spoken about what they call "the international crisis of loneliness," [27] and has sought to create public spaces for processing pain and establishing connection. [38] [39] They have written about using technology as a conduit for intimacy. [40]

Critical reception

Vaid-Menon's practice spans photography, writing, clothing design, and video. Scholar Ace Lehner analyzed Vaid-Menon's work in the journal Refract, arguing that "trans offers a compelling challenge to photographic discourse." Lehner noted that Vaid-Menon photographs trans people and has discussed the difficulty of representing gender through visual art. [23]

Publications

Selected live performances

TV and film appearances

References

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  3. 1 2 3 Sharma, Jeena (March 1, 2019). "ALOK: 'Beauty Is About Looking Like Yourself'". Paper. Retrieved March 20, 2020.
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