Bonnie Tinker

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Bonnie Tinker
BonnieTinker1963.jpg
Bonnie Tinker, from a 1963 newspaper
BornMay 26, 1948
Boone, Iowa, U.S.
DiedJuly 2, 2009 (aged 61)
Blacksburg, Virginia, U.S.
Occupation(s)Activist, photographer, radio host, community leader

Bonnie Jeanne Tinker (May 26, 1948 – July 2, 2009) was an American activist, founder of Love Makes a Family, which advocated for LGBTQ families. She was also chair of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, and founding director of Bradley Angle, an emergency shelter program in Portland, Oregon.

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Early life and education

Tinker was born in Boone, Iowa, one of the seven children of Leonard Edward Tinker and Lorena Jeanne McGregor Tinker. [1] [2] Her parents were active in the civil rights and peace movements. The Tinker family were the plaintiffs in Tinker v. Des Moines Independent Community School District , a United States Supreme Court case about high school students' right to protest. In 1963, she won an essay contest sponsored by the NAACP. [3] She attended Grinnell College [4] as a theatre major in the class of 1969, [5] but refused to take the examinations required to graduate. [6] She also studied in Mexico. She later studied photography and journalism at Portland Community College. [7]

Career and activism

During college, Tinker worked for Michigan Migrant Opportunity, a federal anti-poverty program. [8] After college, she was a member of the Red Emma Collective in Portland, Oregon, [5] and helped establish a women's clinic and a Quaker women's shelter. [9] From 1975 to 1979, she served as founding director of Bradley-Angle House, another women's shelter. [10] [11] She was an early leader of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. [12] She lived at WHO Farm in Estacada, a women's land project. She was the Portland contact for the McKenzie River Gathering, and worked for Volunteers of America in the mid-1980s. From 1987 to 1992, she was a freelance photographer. [7] In 1998 she joined her mother in El Salvador and Nicaragua, to do post-hurricane relief work. [13]

Tinker made a documentary about LGBTQ families, Love Makes a Family (1992). [14] She hosted the "Love Makes a Family" radio show, [15] and was founder and director the organization of the same name. [16] [17] In 1995 she attended the World Conference on Women in Beijing. [18] She taught Quaker workshops on nonviolent change, under the title "Opening Hearts and Minds". "If you don't want to be attacking and defending all the time," she explained in a 1995 interview, "you have to start by not attacking." [15] In 1996, she and Pamela Pegg made an exhibit for the Oregon State Fair from their collection of pins, clippings, photographs, and posters from LGBTQ activism; the exhibit was moved after its content raised concerns. [19] She protested the Iraq War with Seriously Pissed-Off Grannies, and was arrested several times over the years for her non-violent political activities. "If there was a demonstration and something she could get arrested about, she was there," recalled a fellow activist. "Bonnie never knew a sideline to sit on." [20]

Personal life and legacy

Tinker and her partner Sharon Keeler adopted a daughter, Connie. Tinker married her longtime partner Sara Graham in 2004, during a brief window of legalized same-sex marriage that year in Oregon. [16] [21] Tinker and Graham raised their sons Josh and Alex together. Their family was featured on a 2001 segment of ABC's 20/20 about gay and lesbian parents. Tinker died in a traffic accident in 2009, at the age of 61, while riding her bicycle in Blacksburg, Virginia. [22] [23] The Love Makes a Family organization also ended in 2009. There is a large collection of her papers, recordings, and photographs in the Oregon Historical Society Research Library. [24] The Bonnie Tinker Emergency Shelter in Portland is named in her memory. [25] In 2013, she was posthumously awarded a Doctor of Laws degree by Grinnell College. [6]

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