Co-Dependents Anonymous

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Co-Dependents Anonymous (CoDA) is a twelve-step program for people who share a common desire to develop functional and healthy relationships. [1] [2] [3] Co-Dependents Anonymous was founded by Ken and Mary Richardson and the first CoDA meeting attended by 30 people was held October 22, 1986 in Phoenix, Arizona. [3] [4] Within four weeks there were 100 people and before the year was up there were 120 groups. [5] CoDA held its first National Service Conference the next year with 29 representatives from seven states. [3] :567 [5] CoDA has stabilized at about a thousand meetings in the US, and with meetings active in 60 other countries and dozens online that can be reached at www.coda.org. [6]

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CoDA meeting indexes managed independently [7] include:

Australasia, Canada, Germany, Ireland, Israel, Netherlands,South Africa, United Kingdom

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