Irish Gay Dads

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Irish Gay Dads
FormationMarch 28, 2016;9 years ago (2016-03-28)
FounderDaragh Nener-Lally
PurposeActivism
Location
Membership1,000+
Chairperson
Séamus Kearney Martone
AffiliationsEquality for Children,
Assisted Human Reproduction Coalition
Website irishgaydads.ie

Irish Gay Dads is a community and children's rights advocacy group in Ireland. It was founded in 2016.

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History

Early days

Irish Gay Dads was founded in 2016 by Daragh Nener-Lally. He and his husband began learning about starting a family through surrogacy, [1] and encountered obstacles and a lack of clear information on the practicalities and legal status of international surrogacy for Irish citizens. While LGBTQ+ groups and international forums for fathers existed at the time, there were none specifically focused on the situation for male parents from the LGBTQ+ community in Ireland and the Irish diaspora, and so Nener-Lally created Irish Gay Dads as a group on Facebook.

Appearance at Oireachtas Committee

In 2022, Irish Gay Dads was invited to appear at the Oireachtas Joint Committee on International Surrogacy.

Father-of-three Gearoid Kenny Moore, of Irish Gay Dads, called for legislation which would recognise the legal status of parents, both male and female, who have a child through surrogacy, and called on committee members to ensure that children have access to information regarding their origins and that intended parents are "treated equally by providing pre-birth determination in relation to parental rights". Mr Kenny Moore told members that parents like him live in constant fear of what might happen if a biological parent were to die and a "non-recognised parent" was left behind. [2]

Shane Lennon of Irish Gay Dads pointed out to the committee that article 41 of Bunreacht na hÉireann sets out that it a fundamental right of Irish citizens and married persons to make own their decisions when undertaking matters in relation family planning, and so asked "If marriage is the foundation to our family in our legal system, how can the same legal system not support the growth of my family?" [3]

Key moments

Goals

According to the group's website, the Irish Gay Dads community is made up of families and dads-to-be seeking advice and support on surrogacy, adoption, fostering, and coparenting, and the group has two main goals:

References

  1. Peter McGuire (2020-07-14). "Stateless children and parents who are legal 'strangers': the Irish families left in limbo". TheJournal.ie .
  2. David Murphy (2024-04-28). "Surrogacy committee members asked to treat witnesses in 'respectful way'". RTE News .
  3. "Joint Committee on International Surrogacy debate, Thursday, 28 Apr 2022". Oireachtas Éireann . 2024-04-28.
  4. Nicole Lee (2023-11-08). "Irish Gay Dads demand "no more delays" with international surrogacy legislation". Yahoo! News .
  5. "Irish LGBTQI+ groups steadfastly support surrogacy after Pope's call for ban". IrishCentral . 2024-01-10.
  6. Jack Quann (2024-05-31). "LGBT families 'disportionately excluded' from new reproduction legislation". Newstalk .