Meitiv incidents

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Meitiv incidents
DateDecember 20, 2014 (2014-12-20) and 2015
Location Silver Spring, Maryland

The Meitivs are a family living in Silver Spring, Maryland that became a subject of public controversy in 2015 for allowing their children, ages 6 and 10, to go to and from a local park on their own, and for two encounters with government authorities who accused the Meitivs of neglect for this reason.

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Debate

The Meitivs' parenting style has been described as "free-range parenting," although Danielle has disputed that label, saying, "It's just parenting, period. I did it as a kid. My parents did it." [2]

The encounters between the Meitivs and the government have led to an intense debate among parents and educators. [2] The case has been further studied by legal scholars and other academics. [4] [5] [6] [7]

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