Olive theory

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The olive theory is a tongue-in-cheek relationship theory stating two individuals are compatible, romantically or platonically, when one party likes olives and the other does not. [1] If one individual gives their partner the olives on their plate, the relationship is balanced and a good match. [2] The phrase saw a rise in popularity in early 2024 on TikTok, though it is mostly known for its appearance in the pilot episode of How I Met Your Mother . [3] [1]

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Origin

Paul Reiser

The term was first coined by comedian Paul Reiser in his 1994 book Couplehood. [4]

How I Met Your Mother

The phrase is most known for its appearance in the Pilot episode of CBS sitcom How I Met Your Mother which first aired on September 19 2005. [1] In the scene, Ted tells the story of his first date with Robin to Lily and Marshall. [1] Ted states that since Robin does not like olives but he does, they are compatible. [2] Lily and Marshall add on that the olive theory works in their relationship, as Marshall always gives Lily his olives. [2] However, it is later said that Marshall only pretended not to like them to make Lily happy. [2]

Opposites attract

The olive theory is similar to the concept of opposites attract, an idea in which two people work well together when they have contrasting points in their personalities and lives. The idea of people being compatible because of tastes and preferences can be a good talking point early on in a relationship. [3] However, this theory and others like it should not be taken too seriously in real life. [3] [5]

Online trend

TikTok has been the main platform for sharing how the olive theory presents itself in actual relationships and friendships. [5] Creators have taken the liberty of getting creative with the concept by interchanging olives with whatever food or other characteristic applies to their dynamic with another person. [6] These videos act as a fun way to demonstrate how they fit with others, how their relationship is stronger because of their small differences. [3] Other similar trends include the orange peel theory. [5]

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References

  1. 1 2 3 4 "Pilot." How I Met Your Mother, created by Carter Bays and Craig Thomas, season 1, episode 1, CBS, September 19, 2005.
  2. 1 2 3 4 Ramella, Brynne (2014-03-06). "A Wishlist for the End of 'How I Met Your Mother'". Vulture. Retrieved 2024-10-26.
  3. 1 2 3 4 Zuvela, Teneal (2023-07-31). "Can TikTok's Viral Olive Theory Really Test Your Compatibility? Here's What A Dating Scientist Thinks". ELLE. Retrieved 2024-10-26.
  4. ↑ Reiser, Paul (1995). Couplehood. ISBN   978-0553573138.
  5. 1 2 3 Cho, Amy (2024-04-19). "The orange and olive theories: Can these determine the fate of your relationship?". The State News. Retrieved 2024-10-26.
  6. ↑ Munson, Olivia. "'Olive theory,' explained: The compatibility test based on 'How I Met Your Mother'". USA TODAY. Retrieved 2024-10-26.
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