Shan Boodram

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Shannon (Shan) T. BoodramBrady (born 1986) [1] [2] is a Canadian sexologist, author, actor and content creator. She is the host of the podcast Lovers by Shan, [3] with over five million listeners on Spotify. [4] and was the host and executive producer of the talk show Sexology with Shan Boodram, [5] [6] as well as Crash Course Sex Ed. [7] She also hosted the 2023 reality television series The Marriage Pact and the 2017 series Make Up or Break Up, [8] [9] [5] among many other media appearances, and has been interviewed by many creators and media outlets as a relationship expert. [8] [10] [11] [12] [3]

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Early life and education

Shan Boodram was born to Caribbean parents and raised in Toronto, Ontario. [13] [14] [1] She describes displaying interests in physical intimacy from a young age, and that the reaction of the adults around her to this interest influenced her career path. [13] [14]

Boodram completed her Bachelor's degree in psychology at SUNY Empire State College; her Masters of Science in psychology at Arizona State University and her Doctorate of Psychology (Psy. D) at California Southern University. [2]

Career

Boodram previously attained a AASECT certification in sex and relationship educator, [15] [16] [17] which expired in June of 2025. [2] She is a member of the American Sexual Health Association. [2]

In 2012, she started the YouTube channel Shan BOODY, which has had over 71 milllion views as of 2021. [18]

In 2017 she founded the content creation studio Shared Entertainment with her husband Jared Brady. [19] The company has since worked on content for a variety of partners, including the dating app Bumble. [19] [20] [21] [22] [23]

Media

Books

The Game of Desire

Boodram's 2019 book The Game of Desire: 5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance and Getting What You Want outlines a five-step strategy for romantic success. Influenced by Neil Strauss's The Game, it also frames romantic pursuits as a 'game', which Boodram describes as a "bonding activity" and by definition consensual. [1] [25]

Television series

Videos and online content

Podcasts

References

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  2. 1 2 3 4 "Shan Boodram Brady, (Expired Certification)". American Board of Sexology. Retrieved 2026-01-08.
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  7. "Sex Ed". Crash Course. Retrieved 2026-01-05.
  8. 1 2 Herndon, Ayana (2021-04-08). "How Shan Boodram, a Black Sexologist, Is Changing the Narrative Around Sex For Young Women". Popsugar. Retrieved 2026-01-05.
  9. Make Up or Break Up, B17 Entertainment, 2017-09-07, retrieved 2026-01-05
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  11. Wilson, Kerrisa; Banfield, Devon (2023-02-08). "Sexologist Shan Boodram dishes on motherhood and her advice for new moms". NOW Toronto. Retrieved 2026-01-05.
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  25. 1 2 3 4 5 "Quibi's 'Sexology' is full of patient sex advice. If anything, it's not risqué enough". Los Angeles Times. 2020-04-06. Retrieved 2026-01-05.
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