She's Leaving You

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"She's Leaving You"
Single by MJ Lenderman
from the album Manning Fireworks
ReleasedJune 24, 2024 (2024-06-24)
Studio Drop of Sun Studios (Asheville, North Carolina)
Genre Indie rock
Length4:38
Label Anti-
Songwriter(s) MJ Lenderman
Producer(s)
  • MJ Lenderman
  • Alex Farrar
MJ Lenderman singles chronology
"Knockin'"
(2023)		"She's Leaving You"
(2024)		"Joker Lips"
(2024)

"She's Leaving You" is a song recorded by the American singer-songwriter MJ Lenderman. The song was released on June 24, 2024, through Epitaph Records, as the lead single from his fourth studio album Manning Fireworks . The song is a tragicomic anthem of a lousy middle-aged man exposed in deceit after a bender in Vegas. The song features a rollicking guitar solo and backing vocals from his Wednesday bandmate Karly Hartzman. Lenderman co-produced the song with his partner Alex Farrar, and plays nearly all instruments on the track.

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Critics widely praised the song, with many considering it a highlight of Manning Fireworks and one of Lenderman's best songs.

Background

"She's Leaving You" depicts a hapless loser in middle-age unmasked in infidelity. [1] Lenderman opens the song: "You can put your clothes back on, she’s leaving you." [2] In each chorus, he concedes "it falls apart / we all got work to do." [3] [4] In a press release, the song is described as a "half-sneering portrait of a middle-aged man cheating his way through a midlife crisis, at least until he gets caught and blasts Clapton in a rented Ferrari en route to Vegas." [5] Lenderman recorded the song at Drop of Sun Studios in his hometown of Asheville, North Carolina between touring breaks, [6] and plays nearly all instruments on the song, including guitar, drums, bass, vocals, organ, and drone. Alex Farrar, who co-produced the song, adds piano. The song also contains backing vocals from Karly Hartzman of Wednesday, who was romantically linked with Lenderman. [2] [3] The song was compared to the work of Neil Young. [7]

The song's music video is set at a talent show and was directed by Clay Tatum and Whitmer Thomas. [8] In the clip, Lenderman performs alongside cheerleaders and magicians. [5] Critics interpreted the song as reminiscent of the video for "Smells Like Teen Spirit" and Drop Dead Gorgeous . [6]

Release and reception

Anti- released the song on June 24, 2024. The song's release was met with excitement and several viral "dudes rock" memes; [9] one asked, in the style of an op-ed, "Is the Cure to Male Loneliness MJ Lenderman?" [1]

"She's Leaving You" was widely lauded by contemporary music critics. The Fader called it the song of the summer, with Cady Siregar writing: "MJ Lenderman's 'She’s Leaving You' is the slacker anthem of the summer, a no-frills indie rock banger with shades of Built to Spill and Pavement that’s melancholy in tone, but with stadium-ready hooks." [10] Lindsay Zoladz of The New York Times remarked that it "expertly blends pathos and bleak humor [...] Lenderman somehow turns this chronicle of almost achingly banal male behavior into a bona fide anthem, complete with a fist-pumping chorus and a killer guitar solo." [2] The Guardian 's Damien Morris called it "superb" and his "best song yet," [11] while Jon Dolan from Rolling Stone called it the album's highlight. [12] Steven Hyden in Uproxx dubbed it one of Lenderman's finest songs, [13]

Personnel

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