Ukusoma is the Zulu term for simulated intercourse (outercourse), also known as "thigh sex", in which a man is allowed to put his penis between the thighs of his partner, rather than in the vagina, with the woman's legs remaining crossed to prevent penetration. [1] Another term for ukusoma is ukuhlobonga or ukumentsha, described in the 1861 dictionary by clergyman John Colenso. [2] [3] The practice has been widely reported across southern Africa by young couples. [2]
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