Arlette Amuli | |
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| Arlette Amuli in 2018 | |
| Born | July 15, 1995 |
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| YouTube information | |
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| Years active | 2011–present |
| Subscribers | 1.3M million |
| Views | 253 million |
| Last updated: October 25, 2025 | |
Arlette Amuli (born July 15, 1995) is an American content creator, social media personality, and producer. [1] [2] She is best known as the host of the YouTube dating show Pop the Balloon or Find Love and as an executive producer of its Netflix live adaptation, Pop The Balloon Live . Amuli is married to musician Bolia Matundu (BM). [3] [4] [5]
Arlette Amuli was born on July 15, 1995 in Phoenix, Arizona, to middle-class Congolese parents. Her public career began after she met Congolese-born British artist Bolia Matundu (known professionally as BM) during one of his U.S. tours in late 2018. [6] [7] [8] The meeting took place in Phoenix through mutual acquaintances, and the two connected over their shared Congolese roots. [8] Soon after, Amuli appeared in BM's music video for the remix of "Rosalina", featuring Awilo Longomba, which marked her first public venture into entertainment. After two years of a long-distance relationship, they married in 2021. [8] [9] [6]
During the COVID-19 pandemic, social media experienced a boom in homemade dating content. Inspired by viral "pop the balloon" challenges, BM developed a more structured version of the concept and suggested that Amuli host it. [3] [2] Despite having no previous hosting experience, she agreed. [3] [2] BM invested $1,500 in equipment, and they launched the YouTube series Pop the Balloon or Find Love. [7] The first episode aired on December 7, 2023, with Amuli as host and BM as director and co-executive producer. [10] The show's concept centered around brief, high-stakes speed-dating rounds in which participants held red balloons that could be popped to indicate rejection. The format's simplicity and emotional immediacy quickly resonated with audiences. [5] As reported by HotNewHipHop writer A. Aron, the show's viral appeal came from its "rawness", with the sound of a balloon popping making rejections more immediate and dramatic. [5]
Clips from the show spread rapidly across YouTube and TikTok, sparking online discussions about dating culture and modern relationships. Within weeks, the series became one of the most-watched programs on Amuli's channel. [5] Building on the success, Amuli and BM expanded the franchise by launching the Catch Up podcast, which followed up with couples who had met through the show. [5] By mid-2024, Pop the Balloon or Find Love had become a major viral trend across social media. Prominent internet personalities, including FaZe Clan members and streamer Kai Cenat created their own versions of the format in July 2024. [5] The British collective Sidemen also produced a similar special in December 2024 that boosted the format's international popularity. [5] The blend of emotional tension, humor, and striking visuals made the format a standout example of modern online dating entertainment. [5] Earlier, in August 2024, Amuli and BM signed with the Creative Artists Agency (CAA) to expand the franchise into television, podcasting, and commercial collaborations. [1]
Building on the digital success, Netflix commissioned a live adaptation titled Pop The Balloon Live , which premiered in April 2025. The series is hosted by Nigerian-American actress Yvonne Orji and produced by Amuli and BM alongside Bonnie Biggs, Dan Adler, Ellen Rocamora, and Matt Sharp. [3] [4] [5]
Amuli has been married to BM since 2021, and the couple has one child. [6] [7]
Questions about her Congolese background and love story with BM begin at 6:15 and continue until 8:49