Bean soup theory

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Bean soup theory, also known as bean soup effect or what about me effect, describes the phenomenon where someone outside of a target audience attempts to seek accommodations for their personal tastes or situation, a form of the spotlight effect. [1] The term originates from a controversy around comments on a bean soup recipe video asking for a version of the recipe without beans. It has been used to describe the prevalence of egocentrism on social media. [2]

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Origin

The term was coined in 2023 after a video by TikTok user @vibinggranolamom received critical comments. The video [3] was for a vegan bean soup recipe made for women with anemia. [4] The video received comments expressing dislike for the use of beans and asking for a substitute for them. [5] User @vibinggranolamom posted a follow-up to the video, stating that she "doesn’t really have a sub for the beans" and that "there’s a lot of high-iron foods out there though." [6] Discussions around the comments led user @sarahthebookfairy to coin the term The What About Me Effect to describe the controversy. [7]

Cause

A common cause given for the theory is that algorithms cater to the user's interests to the point that it makes them self-centered. [8] The phenomenon has also been attributed[ better source needed ] to unhealthy amounts of time on social media and the loss of third places. [9]

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References

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  8. Harman, Elena (2023-10-15). "The Bean Soup Effect: Individualism has gone too far". The Reflector. Archived from the original on 2025-11-08. Retrieved 2025-12-18.
  9. Serna-Norzagaray, Angela (2024-05-05). "The "what about me?" effect and hyperindividualism | New University | UC Irvine". New University. Archived from the original on 2025-10-17. Retrieved 2025-12-18.