Cody Daigle-Orians

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Cody Daigle-Orians is an asexual American author and social media personality using the name, Ace Dad Advice.

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Career

Daigle-Orians previously worked as a company playwright. [1] Daigle-Orians' first published work was a play, which was produced during their sophomore year of college. [2] They have written several other plays. [3] [4] [5]

In 2017, Daigle-Orians started a podcast, "Bearded Fruit", in which they discussed politics and queer culture. [6] In 2021, they started "Ace Dad Advice," which is a TikTok account that provides users with advice about asexuality through the lens of a parental figure. [7] [8]

In 2023, Daigle-Orians released a book, titled I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Ace Life, through Jessica Kingsley Publishers. [9] [10] Publishers Weekly describes the book as "feel[ing] like receiving guidance from a compassionate mentor" with a "no-frills, conversational style". [11] That same year, they were nominated for a British LGBT Awards in the Online Influencer category. [12]

Daigle-Orians is a contributing author to Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection, which was a finalist for Best LGBTQ Anthology in the 36th Lambda Literary Awards. [13]

Personal life

Daigle-Orians grew up in Lafayette, Louisiana. [2] Daigle-Orians is non-binary (specifically agender) [14] and uses both they/them and he/him pronouns. [2] [note 1] Daigle-Orians came out as gay in 1994. [15] [16] They identified as asexual in their 40s, after learning about the label on Tumblr in the late 2010s. [15] [8] They are polyamorous. [16]

Notes

  1. ↑ For consistency, "they/them" pronouns are used to refer to Daigle-Orians throughout this article.

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  10. ↑ Daigle-Orians, Cody (2023). I am ace : advice on living your best asexual life. London: Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN   9781839972621. OCLC   1369205431.
  11. ↑ ‘I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life’ (2022) Publishers Weekly, 269(41), p. 148. Available at: https://research.ebsco.com/linkprocessor/plink?id=b7df8af6-ae15-3d01-abb0-2097e43a544b (Accessed: 9 July 2024).
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  14. ↑ "About". Ace Dad Advice. Retrieved July 9, 2024. They are queer, ace, and agender.
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