Darrel Ray

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Darrel Ray
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BornDarrel Wayne Ray
(1950-08-24) August 24, 1950 (age 74)
Wichita, Kansas
Occupation Organizational psychologist, author
Education MA, Ed. D.
Alma mater Friends University
Scarritt College for Christian Workers
Genre Non-fiction
Subject Religion, secularism, organization development, sexuality
Years active1978–present
Notable worksThe God Virus, Sex and God

Darrel Wayne Ray (born August 24, 1950) is an American organizational psychologist and author who focuses on topics such as workplace organizational culture, secular sexuality, and the treatment of religion-induced trauma. He is a public speaker, podcaster, and atheist activist, and founded the non-profit organization Recovering from Religion as well as the Secular Therapy Project.

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Personal life

Ray was raised a fundamentalist Christian in Wichita, Kansas, by parents who eventually became missionaries, and among family members highly involved in church life. [1] This fundamentalist upbringing informs much of his later writing. [2] In 1979, Ray joined the Quaker church, and later he attended the Presbyterian church. [3] From 1969 to 1984, he taught Sunday school, preached, and was a tenor soloist in several church choirs.[ citation needed ] He became agnostic by his early 30s and an atheist by 40. [4]

Ray is the father of two children and also a grandfather. [5] He is also openly polyamorous. [6]

Education

In 1972, Ray earned a bachelor's degree in sociology/anthropology at Friends University in Wichita, and in 1974 he completed an MA in Church and Community at Scarritt College for Christian Workers in Nashville, Tennessee. In 1978 he finished a doctoral program in psychology at Peabody College of Vanderbilt University, earning his Ed.D. [7]

Professional work

Ray became very involved in organizational culture and in clinical psychology. [5] He has written two books on team-building and served as the director of The Institute for Performance Culture. [8] He also founded Teaming Up, an organizational and team-building coaching program. [9] Ray co-authored two books with Howard Bronstein which describe how to create and manage self-directed teams. [10]

In 2009, Ray founded the organization Recovering from Religion (RfR), an international, non-profit organization which helps people dealing with issues stemming from religious trauma, doubt, and non-belief. [3] As of 2024 Ray serves as the president of the RfR Board of Directors. [11] He also founded the RfR's Secular Therapy Project, which has the goal of helping clients find therapists offering secular and science-based therapy. [12]

Ray has written books about secularism and atheism: The God Virus: How Religion Affects Our Lives and Culture [13] and Sex and God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality. [14] Ray's books about secularism and religion explore how religion interacts with human beings on a personal and cultural level. Ray explores how religious institutions and ideas can be used to control human thoughts and behaviors, especially sexual behaviors. [5] Ray pays special attention to placing sexuality and various religions into context culturally and historically. [6] He takes the stance that many human impulses, feelings and sexual behaviors are normal and can be desirable. [15] Ray's books have influenced other atheists, and his psychological interpretation of Richard Dawkins's concept of religion as a virus has influenced the atheist and secular movement in America. [16]

On August 30, 2014, Ray launched a podcast about human sexuality and atheism called Secular Sexuality, where is he also the host. [17]

Ray has also appeared as a secular psychological expert on television, including ABC News show, Nightline , where in 2011 he spoke out against exorcisms and took a scientific viewpoint towards psychological illnesses that might look like possession. [18]

Research

In June 1982, Ray and several other authors released a paper describing a study done on male youth offenders in a juvenile correction institute. Ray and the group studied whether population density had any effects on the participants. [19]

In May 2011, Ray and Amanda Brown (an undergraduate at the University of Kansas studying sex and sexuality) released the results of a self-reporting online survey [20] of over 14,500 American secularists, titled "Sex and Secularism: What Happens When You Leave Religion?", and concluding that sex improves dramatically after leaving religion, and that people who are religious exhibit similar sexual behaviors as the non-religious, but experience markedly increased guilt. [21] The study has been criticized for suffering from self-selection bias, [22] due to its recruiting of participants via the science blog Pharyngula. [23]

Bibliography

Books

Journals

Ray has written for a number of journals, including The Humanist, a publication of the American Humanist Association. [24]

Podcast

Ray's podcast, Secular Sexuality addresses human sexuality from an atheist or freethinker's viewpoint. It is produced by Secular Media Group, LLC, an atheist media and publishing company. [25]

Related Research Articles

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Secularity, also the secular or secularness, is the state of being unrelated or neutral in regards to religion. The origins of secularity can be traced to the Bible itself. The concept was fleshed out through Christian history into the modern era. In the Middle Ages, there were even secular clergy. Furthermore, secular and religious entities were not separated in the medieval period, but coexisted and interacted naturally. The word secular has a meaning very similar to profane as used in a religious context.

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Pharyngula, a blog founded and written by PZ Myers, is hosted on ScienceBlogs and on FreeThoughtBlogs (2011–present). In 2006 the science journal Nature listed it as the top-ranked blog written by a scientist based on popularity. The blog addresses a range of topics, including Myers's academic specialty, biology. It has become particularly well known for Myers's writing style and for his criticism of intelligent design and creationism. In 2009, Hemant Mehta ranked Pharyngula the most popular atheist blog, based on subscriber levels and other factors.

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<span class="mw-page-title-main">Recovering from Religion</span> Non-profit organization supporting people leaving religion

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