Erin Merryn

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Erin Merryn (born February 2, 1985) is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, An Unimaginable Act, Bailey No Ordinary Cat, and The Diary of a Cat Named Carrot. She is an activist against child sexual abuse as well as the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety in order to prevent child sexual abuse. Erin's Law was the first law passed in the United States requiring sexual abuse prevention education to be taught to students in school every year, and it was subsequently passed in 38 U.S. states before being signed into federal law. Erin’s Law has now gone international with a judge in Kerala India requiring Erin’s Law in the 2023-2024 school year. Merryn is a national spokesperson for the National Children's Alliance, becoming the first survivor of child sexual abuse that went through a Children's Advocacy Center to speak on national television about her experience. [1]

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Merryn was also the owner of the viral Instagram cat, Bailey, until he died in December 2018. She published a book called “Bailey No Ordinary Cat” that showcases Bailey's unusually gentle interactions with her three children. After Bailey's passing, she adopted a kitten named Carrot. She now runs Carrot's Instagram and shares pictures of Carrot sharing a similar demeanor of her previously owned cat, Bailey. Carrot has 296,000 instagram followers. Carrot has her own best seller book titled “Diary of a Cat Named Carrot”

She has appeared on Oprah, Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, Fox, MSNBC, TLC documentary Breaking the Silence, CBS This Morning, Katie Couric, Tamaron Hall, 700 Club, and over 200 local media stations.

Background

Merryn suffered sexual abuse by a male neighbor at ages six to eight [2] and by a teenage cousin at ages 11 to 13. [3] According to her personal account, she told her parents about the latter after her sister confided that she had also been abused by the same relative. [2] The family pressed charges, and the cousin eventually confessed to three counts of child sexual abuse. A judge sentenced her cousin to probation and counseling. [3]

She graduated from Schaumburg High School in 2004 [4] and earned a Bachelor of Social Work from Western Illinois University in 2008. [5] She earned a master's degree from Aurora University in social work. [3]

Activism

"I was not educated on not keeping secrets if someone was hurting me. My mission, through this legislation, is to educate children on what I never learned. I will not stop until children in all 50 states are protected from sexual abuse."

—Erin Merryn [6]

Merryn advocates for sexual abuse victims. [7] She published her diary detailing her cousin's abuse and her own recovery, relapse and reconciliation in book form as Stolen Innocence in 2005. [8] In November 2009, she published a second book, Living For Today, discussing earlier abuse by her neighbor.

In 2008, Merryn helped create Erin's Law, which was the first law to be passed in the U.S. that required children to be taught sexual abuse prevention in school. The law was passed in a number of states, [7] with New York becoming the 37th in 2019. Merryn worked with U.S. Senator Gillibrand on the federal version of Erin's Law to give federal funding to the law, and in December 2015 President Obama signed the federal version of Erin's Law under the Every Student Succeeds Act.

Glamour magazine named Merryn Woman of the Year 2012, and People magazine named her one of fifteen women changing the world and a HEROES Among us in 2013. [9]

Published works

The Diary of a Cat Named Carrot (2021)

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References

  1. ↑ "A Child's Best Defense Is Her Voice. Here's How We Amplify It | National Children's Alliance". www.nationalchildrensalliance.org. Archived from the original on 2017-09-07.
  2. 1 2 Weisensee Egan, Nicole (April 4, 2013). "Erin Merryn Fights for Law to Help Child Sexual Assault Victims". People magazine . Retrieved June 3, 2013.
  3. 1 2 3 Cole, Wendy (November 29, 2010). "Erin's Law: When the Abuser Is No Stranger". People magazine . Archived from the original on October 2, 2010. Retrieved June 3, 2013.
  4. ↑ "Schaumburg High School Class of 2004.(Neighbor)". Daily Herald. Arlington Heights, IL. 2004-06-12. Senior Erin Merryn publishes first book "Stolen Innocence".
  5. ↑ "Campus Close-Ups". Schaumburg Review. 2008-08-07. The following Schaumburg students at Western Illinois University have earned their degrees: ... Bachelor of Social Work;
  6. ↑ Valesky, David (April 24, 2013). "State Senate Passes Erin Merryn's Law Aimed at Child Sex Abuse Prevention". New York Senate. Retrieved June 3, 2013.
  7. 1 2 Zammett Ruddy, Erin. "Erin Merryn: The Guardian Angel". Glamour . Retrieved June 3, 2013.
  8. ↑ "Survivor Recalls Alleged Incest in Book". Good Morning America. ABC News. 2006-05-21.
  9. ↑ "Child Sexual Abuse Survivor Gets Law Passed".
  10. ↑ Jania, Rebecca (2005-10-10). "Standing up and speaking out". Western Courier. Archived from the original on July 18, 2011.
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