Freddy McConnell

Last updated

Freddy McConnell
Freddy McConnell.jpg
BornSeptember 1986 (age 37)
Other namesAlfred Reuben McConnell
Alma mater University of Edinburgh
OccupationMultimedia journalist
Known forTransgender rights advocacy
Children2
Website freddymcconnell.com

Alfred Reuben McConnell (born September 1986) is an English multimedia journalist who writes about transgender rights in the United Kingdom. He is best known for being a transgender man who has given birth. The experience leading to his giving birth is detailed in the 2019 documentary Seahorse that premiered at the Tribeca Film Festival.

Contents

Education and career

McConnell grew up and lives in Deal, Kent. [1] He studied at the University of Edinburgh and graduated with a undergraduate degree in Arabic. [2] In 2011, He worked for the NGO Skateistan in Kabul, Afghanistan for a period of six months. While in Afghanistan, he transitioned publicly, and was accepted by his colleagues as a man. [3]

In 2012, McConnell enrolled in a short-term American immersion programme for Arabic. This programme was through Middlebury College over the summer of 2012 in San Francisco, California. [4]

As of 2019, McConnell worked as a multimedia journalist for The Guardian . [5]

Transition

From a very young age, McConnell experienced gender dysphoria. McConnell realized he was transgender in 2010 at the age of 23. [5] He started his transition in 2013 with testosterone replacement therapy. A year later in 2014 he underwent a double mastectomy. He considered undergoing a hysterectomy, but elected not to because of his interest in possibly having children. [2]

In January 2017, under the Gender Recognition Act 2004, he applied to obtain a gender recognition certificate to be legally recognized as male. His application was granted and he received his gender recognition certificate 11 April 2017. [6]

While he was choosing his new name, he decided he wanted to pick a name with family history. He chose his first name from his great-great uncle Frederic William McConnell. His middle name comes from his great-great-great uncle Reuben Poland. [7]

Pregnancy and Seahorse documentary

McConnell stopped testosterone replacement therapy in September 2016 to start the process of becoming pregnant. On 21 April 2017, he was artificially inseminated and became pregnant with his son. He gave birth in January 2018. [6]

In 2019, McConnell recorded the experience of receiving artificial insemination and of his subsequent pregnancy in the documentary film Seahorse, which made its debut at the Tribeca Film Festival in the same year. The film was directed by Jeanie Finlay and made in association with The Guardian. [6]

Court case

McConnell gave birth to a son, publicly known just as SJ, in January 2018. When attempting to register the child's birth, the Registrar denied McConnell's petition to be listed as the child's father on the birth certificate, though allowing McConnell to use his current name. In September 2019, McConnell lost an application for judicial review to be described as father or parent on the child's birth certificate. Reports suggest that English common law requires those that give birth to be described as mother on the child's birth certificate, despite McConnell's possession of a gender recognition certificate under the Gender Recognition Act of 2004. The President of the Family Division of the Administrative Court also denied a declaration of parentage filed by McConnell. The president declared that McConnell was legally the child's mother and thus possessed parental responsibility of the child accordingly. Because of this decision, McConnell could not be listed as the child's father on the birth certificate. [6] This decision was later upheld at the Court of Appeal in April 2020. [6]

Four British newspaper publishers, Telegraph Media Group, Associated Newspapers, News Group Newspapers and Reach PLC, successfully applied to have an anonymity order affecting the case removed in July 2019. [6]

Life after court case

McConnell co-hosted the podcast Pride and Joy which aired on BBC in 2020. In this podcast, he discussed queer people having children. [8] [ non-primary source needed ]

His first children's book, titled Little Seahorse and the Big Question, illustrated by Rosalind Beardshaw, was set to be released in July 2022. [8] [ non-primary source needed ]

McConnell announced his second pregnancy in August 2021, [9] with plans to give birth in Sweden in order to be listed as the child's father, rather than mother, on their birth certificate. [10] His second child was born in the UK in January 2022 via emergency c-section. [11] [ non-primary source needed ] McConnell has not publicly shared the sex of his second child, referring to them with they/them pronouns online. His children are referred to by generic nicknames on social media in order to protect their privacy, the eldest being known as "Shrimp" or "SJ" (The initials, McConnell revealed to stand for "Shrimp J", with J not standing for anything), and the second child as "LB" short for "Little Bird", neither nickname refers to the child's legal name respectively.

In December 2023 McMconnell was a member of the University of Edinburgh team for the University Challenge Christmas Special. [12]

Related Research Articles

The legal status of transgender people varies greatly around the world. Some countries have enacted laws protecting the rights of transgender individuals, but others have criminalized their gender identity or expression. In many cases, transgender individuals face discrimination in employment, housing, healthcare, and other areas of life.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Gender Recognition Act 2004</span> UK parliament act

The Gender Recognition Act 2004 is an act of the Parliament of the United Kingdom that allows people who have gender dysphoria to change their legal gender. It came into effect on 4 April 2005.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Trans man</span> Man assigned female at birth

A trans man is a man who was assigned female at birth. Trans men have a male gender identity, and many trans men undergo medical and social transition to alter their appearance in a way that aligns with their gender identity or alleviates gender dysphoria.

<i>Chanthupottu</i> 2005 film by Lal Jose

Chanthupottu is a 2005 Indian Malayalam-language romantic comedy-drama film directed by Lal Jose, written by Benny P. Nayarambalam, and produced by Lal. The film was based on a play of the same name, which in turn, was based on the life of an actual man with feminine mannerisms. The story is about a man named Radhakrishnan (Dileep) who was brought up like a girl by his grandmother. This film was a commercial success at the box office.

In the United States, the rights of transgender people vary considerably by jurisdiction. In recent decades, there has been an expansion of federal, state, and local laws and rulings to protect transgender Americans; however, many rights remain unprotected, and some rights are being eroded. Since 2020, there has been a national movement by conservative/right-wing politicians and organizations to target transgender rights. There has been a steady increase in the number of anti-transgender bills introduced each year, especially in Republican-led states.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">LGBT rights in Montana</span>

Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons in the U.S. state of Montana may face some legal challenges not experienced by non-LGBT residents. Same-sex sexual activity has been legal in Montana since 1997. Same-sex couples and families headed by same-sex couples are eligible for all of the protections available to opposite-sex married couples, as same-sex marriage has been recognized since November 2014. State statutes do not address discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity; however, the U.S. Supreme Court's ruling in Bostock v. Clayton County established that employment discrimination against LGBT people is illegal under federal law. A number of cities also provide protections in housing and public accommodations.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Thomas Beatie</span> Speaker, author, and transgender advocate

Thomas Trace Beatie is an American public speaker, author, and advocate of transgender and sexuality issues, with a focus on transgender fertility and reproductive rights.

Transgender pregnancy is the gestation of one or more embryos or fetuses by transgender people. As of 2023, the possibility is restricted to those born with female reproductive systems. However, transition-related treatments may impact fertility. Transgender men and nonbinary people who are or wish to become pregnant face social, medical, legal, and psychological concerns. As uterus transplantations are currently experimental, and none have successfully been performed on trans women, they cannot become pregnant.

The participation of transgender people in competitive sports, a traditionally sex-segregated institution, is a controversial issue, particularly the inclusion of transgender women and girls in women's sports.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Trevor Kirczenow</span> Canadian politician

Trevor Kirczenow is a transgender health researcher and diabetes healthcare advocate. He is an author and community organizer in the field of LGBTQ lactation and infant feeding. He has run twice as a candidate for the Liberal Party of Canada.

Transgender rights in Australia have legal protection under federal and state/territory laws, but the requirements for gender recognition vary depending on the jurisdiction. For example, birth certificates, recognised details certificates, and driver licences are regulated by the states and territories, while Medicare and passports are matters for the Commonwealth.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Transgender rights in New Zealand</span>

Transgender and non-binary people in New Zealand face discrimination in several aspects of their lives. The law is unclear on the legal status of discrimination based on gender identity, and also for intersex people.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Legal recognition of non-binary gender</span>

Multiple countries legally recognize non-binary or third gender classifications. These classifications are typically based on a person's gender identity. In some countries, such classifications may only be available to intersex people, born with sex characteristics that "do not fit the typical definitions for male or female bodies."

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Transgender rights in the United Kingdom</span>

Transgender rights in the United Kingdom have varied significantly over time, with the British transgender community facing ongoing challenges not experienced by cisgender (cis) Britons. These include various laws and public attitudes in regards to identity documents, as well as anti-discrimination measures used by or pertaining to transgender people, in the areas of employment, education, housing and social services, amongst others.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Transgender rights in Ireland</span>

A citizen of Ireland is legally permitted to change the designation of their gender on government documents through self-determination. In 2015, Ireland was the fourth state in the world to permit such alterations to government documents. By May 2017, 230 people had been granted gender recognition certificates under the law. Section 16 of the Act entitles the holder of a gender recognition certificate to apply to have the certificate amended if there is a clerical error or an error of fact in the content of the certificate. Two such corrections have been made since commencement of the Act.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Transgender rights in Germany</span>

Transgender rights in the Federal Republic of Germany are regulated by the Transsexuellengesetz since 1980, and indirectly affected by other laws like the Abstammungsrecht. The law initially required transgender people to undergo sex-reassignment surgery in order to have key identity documents changed. This has since been declared unconstitutional. The German government has pledged to replace the Transsexuellengesetz with the Selbstbestimmungsgesetz, which would remove the financial and bureaucratic hurdles necessary for legal gender and name changes. Discrimination protections on the basis of gender identity and sexual orientation vary across Germany, but discrimination in employment and the provision of goods and services is in principle banned countrywide.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Gender self-identification</span> Legal concept

Gender self-identification is the concept that a person's legal sex or gender should be determined by their gender identity without any medical requirements, such as via statutory declaration.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">LGBT reproduction</span> Biological reproduction by LGBT people

LGBT reproduction refers to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people having biological children by means of assisted reproductive technology. It is distinct from LGBT parenting, which is a broader cultural phenomenon including LGBT adoption. In recent decades, developmental biologists have been researching and developing techniques to facilitate same-sex reproduction.

Kayden Coleman is an American transgender advocate, educator, and social media influencer. He is known for raising awareness of transmasculine men who experience pregnancy. In 2013, when Coleman was 4 years into gender reassignment therapy, he found out he was pregnant with his and his partner's first child. Since then, Coleman has been interviewed by news outlets such as USA Today, TODAY.com, and Out about his experiences with transgender pregnancy. In 2021, he was honored by Out as an Out100 honoree, a recognition given to prominent members of the LGBTQ+ community for their outstanding work promoting LGBTQ+ rights. He has appeared in a commercial for Lexus. Coleman currently offers workshops, sensitivity training, consultations, speaking engagements, and online brand promotions that seek to educate the public on transgender fertility, medical racism, pregnancy, disability awareness, and parenting.

Precious Brady-Davis is an American transgender author and climate and LGBT rights activist. She wrote the best-selling book I Have Always Been Me.

References

  1. Storey, Kate (18 June 2020). "Freddy McConnell Gave Birth to His Son. Then His Life Changed". Esquire . Retrieved 27 January 2024.
  2. 1 2 Hattenstone, Simon (20 April 2019). "The dad who gave birth: 'Being pregnant doesn't change me being a trans man'". The Guardian . Archived from the original on 8 December 2021. Retrieved 9 November 2021.
  3. McConnell, Freddy (12 March 2015). "Trans life: fond memories of coming out in Afghanistan". The Guardian . Archived from the original on 18 November 2021. Retrieved 18 November 2021.
  4. McConnell, Freddy (6 January 2015). "Why I would choose an immersion course over a language degree". The Guardian . Archived from the original on 4 December 2021. Retrieved 18 November 2021.
  5. 1 2 McConnell, Freddy (25 September 2019). "Transgender man loses court battle to be registered as father". The Guardian . Archived from the original on 19 October 2021. Retrieved 9 November 2021.
  6. 1 2 3 4 5 6 R (Alfred McConnell) -v- The Registrar General for England and Wales and others [2020 EWCA Civ 559]
  7. McConnell, Freddy (14 May 2015). "Trans life: how I plucked my new name from the family tree". The Guardian . Archived from the original on 9 November 2021. Retrieved 9 November 2021.
  8. 1 2 "Freddy McConnell (@freddy.mcconnell) • Instagram photos and videos". www.instagram.com. Archived from the original on 28 May 2020. Retrieved 4 January 2023.
  9. "After a Year of Trying as a Single Dad, I'm Finally Pregnant Again". www.vice.com. 4 October 2021. Archived from the original on 15 December 2022. Retrieved 6 September 2022.
  10. McConnell, Freddy (15 December 2021). "As a Trans Person, I'm Forced to Go Abroad to Give Birth". Vice News . Archived from the original on 7 December 2022. Retrieved 6 September 2022.
  11. McConnell, Freddy [@freddy.mcconnell] (17 January 2022). "Five days, LB. Five days since this" via Instagram.
  12. "University Challenge - Christmas 2023: Episode 4" via www.bbc.co.uk.