Furir Bari Iftari

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Furir Barir istari Celebration in Sylhet

Furir Bari Iftari is the Bengali tradition among Bengali Muslims in the Sylhet region of giving Iftar (the fast-breaking evening meal) to the household of one's daughter's in-laws during the month of Ramadan. [1] [2] The term comes from the Sylheti word Furi (daughter). [3]

The practice is not obligatory in Islam, but in-laws have come to expect it. [4] [5] There have been incidents where a daughter's husband and in-laws have allegedly tortured her, driven her to suicide, or killed her, if her father has not given generously to them. [6] [7] [8]

Some commentators have criticized the custom as a superstition or an evil practice because it can be a mental, financial and social burden on a father who is poor. [9] [10]

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