Kate Bornstein

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Kate Bornstein
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Bornstein at the 2025 Baltimore Book Festival
Born (1948-03-15) March 15, 1948 (age 77)
Education Brown University (BA)
Occupations
  • Performance artist
  • author
Partner Barbara Carrellas
Website katebornstein.com

Katherine Vandam Bornstein [1] is an American author, playwright, performance artist, actor, and gender theorist. As a transgender pioneer since the 1980s, Bornstein's reflections on sex and gender nonconformity have influenced various spheres of queer culture. She [a] has stated "I don't call myself a woman, and I know I'm not a man". [2] :x Bornstein now identifies as non-binary, [3] and has also written personal accounts of having anorexia, surviving PTSD, and being diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. [2] :xi

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Early life and education

Bornstein grew up just outside of Asbury Park, New Jersey, in an upper middle-class Conservative Jewish family of Russian and Dutch descent. [4] Bornstein studied Theater Arts with John Emigh and Jim Barnhill at Brown University (Class of '69). [5] [2] :43

Scientology

Bornstein joined the Church of Scientology in 1970. [2] :48-50 She found herself drawn to Scientology because thetans are genderless beings. [6] Bornstein eventually would serve on a ship with L. Ron Hubbard and eventually become a high-ranking lieutenant in the Sea Org. [6] [7] While serving in this position, she secretly bought porn magazines from Lee Brewster. She would also purchase women's clothes to wear while staying in hotels and later discard them. [2] :127-129 Bornstein later became disillusioned and formally left the movement in 1982. By doing so, she was deemed a suppressive person, which prevented her from contacting her daughter. [6]

Career

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Kate Bornstein at SUNY New Paltz in October, 2018

Bornstein settled into the lesbian community in San Francisco, and wrote art reviews for the gay and lesbian paper The Bay Area Reporter . [8] Over the next few years, she began to identify as neither a man nor a woman. [9]

In 2009, Bornstein's Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks, and Other Outlaws was a Lambda Literary Award Finalist for LGBT Nonfiction and Honorbook for the Stonewall Children's and Young Adult Literature. [10] Bornstein edited Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation in collaboration with S. Bear Bergman. [11] The anthology won Lambda Literary and Publishing Triangle Awards in 2011. [12] [13]

Bornstein is a major cultural icon, influencing the social and political representation of transgender identity. Aperture referred to her as a "gender outlaw." [14] Bornstein was featured in the reality television series I Am Cait . [15]

Books

Theatre

Bornstein made their Broadway debut in July 2018 in the play Straight White Men. [17] She has since created several performance pieces, some of them one-person shows. [18] In 1989, Bornstein created a theatre production in collaboration with Noreen Barnes, Hidden: A Gender, based on parallels between their own life and that of the intersex person Herculine Barbin, [4] starring Bornstein and Justin Vivian Bond.

Bornstein has featured in The Opposite Sex Is Neither, Virtually Yours, Hidden: A Gender, Strangers in Paradox, y2kate: gender virus 2000, and Hard Candy.[ citation needed ]

Personal life

Bornstein lives with partner Barbara Carrellas in New York City, with three cats, two dogs, and a turtle. [8]

Bornstein never felt comfortable with the belief of the day that all trans women are "women trapped in men's bodies". [19] She did not identify as a man, but the only other option was to be a woman, a reflection of the gender binary, which required people to identify according to only two available genders. [6] [2] :42,101,243 She had sex reassignment surgery in 1986. [2] :x

In August 2012, Bornstein was diagnosed with lung cancer. She had surgery which initially seemed successful, but in February 2013 it was found that the disease had returned. Laura Vogel, a friend of Bornstein's, launched a GoFundMe campaign on March 20 to help fund subsequent treatment. [20] In December 2015, Bornstein announced that they had been cancer-free for two years. [21]

Speaking to the LGBTQ&A podcast in July 2021, Bornstein talked about how her view of gender evolved during the COVID-19 pandemic, "Gender became inconsequential to me while I was in quarantine and grappling with old age...This is where you really need to be letting go of shit. I'm letting go of the ability to be cute, in certain ways. I'm too old for that. My face is sagging, my boobs are sagging. Boy, oh boy. They're down to my waist and you let go of that as being necessary to your gender." [22]

Notes

  1. Bornstein uses she/her and they/them pronouns; this article uses she/her for consistency.

References

  1. Bornstein, Kate (May 5, 2012). "My Scientology excommunication". Salon . Archived from the original on April 16, 2013. Retrieved May 6, 2012.
  2. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Bornstein, Kate (2012). A Queer and Pleasant Danger: A Memoir. Beacon Press. ISBN   9780807001653. OL   25139467M.
  3. Czyzselska, Jane (February 2016). "CALL ME Kate". Diva: 54.
  4. 1 2 "Kate Bornstein's Gender and Genre Bending" (PDF). LGBT Jewish Heroes. Archived from the original (PDF) on August 12, 2011. Retrieved November 4, 2012.
  5. "Bornstein, Kate Papers". LGBTQ Religious Archives Network.
  6. 1 2 3 4 ""A Queer and Pleasant Danger": Kate Bornstein, Trans Scientology Survivor". Mother Jones . Archived from the original on August 18, 2012. Retrieved August 27, 2012.
  7. "No Longer At Sea: Kate Bornstein Talks Scientology". Religion Dispatches . June 27, 2012. Archived from the original on April 15, 2013. Retrieved August 27, 2012.
  8. 1 2 Piechota, Jim (August 9, 2012). "Surviving Scientology". Bay Area Reporter. Archived from the original on December 3, 2013. Retrieved February 13, 2013.
  9. Lavelle, Ciara (September 2, 2016). "Eileen Myles, the Property Brothers, and Others Coming to Miami Book Fair 2016". Miami New Times. Archived from the original on March 14, 2018. Retrieved March 13, 2018.
  10. "Kate Bornstein". Seven Stories Press. Archived from the original on April 18, 2018. Retrieved April 17, 2018.
  11. "Interview with S. Bear Bergman". Genderfork. October 29, 2009. Archived from the original on May 7, 2022. Retrieved November 13, 2009.
  12. "Triangle Awards: Kate Bornstein". Out FM. May 6, 2011. Archived from the original on February 22, 2015. Retrieved July 19, 2013.
  13. "Glam Meets Identity Politics at Lammys: Literary awards fête Edward Albee, Val McDermid; feature Stefanie Powers". Gay City News. June 10, 2011. Retrieved February 23, 2012.[ permanent dead link ]
  14. MagazineEA (December 18, 2017). "Gender is a Playground". Aperture. Retrieved September 5, 2025.
  15. M. B. (October 2016). "Kate Bornstein". Out. 25: 57. Archived from the original on May 7, 2022. Retrieved May 7, 2022 via LGBT Life with Full Text.
  16. "Firecracker Alternative Book Awards". ReadersRead.com. Archived from the original on March 4, 2009.
  17. "Trans performer Kate Bornstein has shut down a Broadway heckler in a moving Facebook post". PinkNews. August 10, 2018. Archived from the original on December 22, 2021. Retrieved December 22, 2021.
  18. Haddad, Natalie (June 19, 2024). "Kate Bornstein's Life Through Four Dimensions of Gender". Hyperallergic.
  19. Bornstein, Kate (1994). Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us. Routledge. p. 66. ISBN   978-0415908979. Archived from the original on May 7, 2022. Retrieved April 27, 2021.
  20. Morgan, Glennisha (March 22, 2013). "Kate Bornstein, Transgender Activist And Theorist, Receives Support For Cancer Fundraiser". Huffington Post. Archived from the original on March 4, 2016. Retrieved February 21, 2020.
  21. "Blame it all on this guy: new scan says I'm cancer-free—that makes it 2 years, no cancer". Twitter. Archived from the original on December 22, 2021. Retrieved December 22, 2021.
  22. "Still A Gender Outlaw: Catching Up With Trans Elder Kate Bornstein". www.advocate.com. July 27, 2021. Archived from the original on December 22, 2021. Retrieved December 22, 2021.

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