Kate Bornstein

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Kate Bornstein
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Kate Bornstein at Babeland in Seattle in December 2010
Born (1948-03-15) March 15, 1948 (age 71)
ResidenceNew York City
OccupationPerformance artist
Website katebornstein.com

Katherine Vandam "Kate" Bornstein [1] (born March 15, 1948) [2] is an American author, playwright, performance artist, actress, and gender theorist. In 1986, Bornstein identified as gender non-conforming and has stated "I don't call myself a woman, and I know I'm not a man." after having been assigned male at birth and receiving gender affirmation surgery. [3] She now identifies with the pronouns they/them or she/her. [4] Bornstein has also written about having anorexia, being a survivor of PTSD and being diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. [5] Bornstein has chronic lymphocytic leukemia and in September 2012 was diagnosed with lung cancer. [6]

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Anorexia nervosa eating disorder characterized by refusal to maintain a healthy body weight, and an obsessive fear of gaining weight due to a distorted self image

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Borderline personality disorder personality disorder that involves a prolonged disturbance of personality function characterized by depth and variability of moods

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Biography

Early life

Born in Neptune City, New Jersey, into a middle-class Conservative Jewish family of Russian and Dutch descent, [7] Bornstein studied Theater Arts with John Emigh and Jim Barnhill at Brown University (Class of '69). She joined the Church of Scientology, becoming a high ranking lieutenant in the Sea Org [8] [9] [10] but later became disillusioned and formally left the movement in 1981. Bornstein's antagonism toward Scientology and public split from the church have had personal consequences; Bornstein's daughter, herself a Scientologist, no longer has any contact per Scientology's policy of disconnection. [11]

Neptune City, New Jersey Borough in New Jersey, United States

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John Emigh is Professor Emeritus from the Departments of Theatre, Speech and Dance and of English at Brown University, Providence, Rhode Island. Emigh taught at Brown from 1967 to 2009. Since his retirement, he has mainly been teaching and directing in the Brown/Trinity Rep MFA program.

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Transition and post-op

Bornstein never felt comfortable with the belief of the day that all trans women are "women trapped in men's bodies." [12] She did not identify as a man, but the only other option was to be a woman, a reflection of the gender binary, which required people to identify according to only two available genders. Another obstacle was the fact that Bornstein was attracted to women. She had sex reassignment surgery in 1986.

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Bornstein settled into the lesbian community in San Francisco, and wrote art reviews for the gay and lesbian paper The Bay Area Reporter . [13] Over the next few years, she began to identify as neither a man nor a woman. [14] This catapulted Bornstein back to performing, creating several performance pieces, some of them one-person shows. It was the only way that she knew how to communicate life's paradoxes.

Bornstein also teaches workshops and has published several gender theory books and a novel. Hello Cruel World was written to derail "teens, freaks, and other outlaws" from committing suicide. "Do whatever it takes to make your life more worth living," Bornstein writes, "just don't be mean." [15]

Kate Bornstein at SUNY New Paltz in October, 2018. Photo by Morgan Gwenwald. KateBornstein.jpg
Kate Bornstein at SUNY New Paltz in October, 2018. Photo by Morgan Gwenwald.

Bornstein's partner is Barbara Carrellas. They live in New York City with three cats, two dogs, and a turtle. [16]

Barbara Carrellas is an author, sex educator, performance artist, and certified sexologist accredited through the American College of Sexologists. She facilitates workshops in which participants explore sexuality through a holistic approach that includes practices like erotic breathwork and Tantra, and she has lectured at various institutions, including the Museum of Sex in New York City, Vassar College, Barnard College, and the Chicago Art Institute. She is known for her "breath and energy orgasm" techniques, which she says are "orgasms you can have using your imagination and your breath." Carrellas learned the technique during the height of the AIDS epidemic as a way for people to orgasm without physical contact. Such techniques, she says, offers a way for "people to have more safer-sex options."

Cancer diagnosis

In August 2012, Bornstein was diagnosed with lung cancer. Doctors thought that she was cancer-free after surgery, but it emerged in February 2013 that the disease had returned. Laura Vogel, a friend of hers, launched a GoFundMe campaign on March 20 to help fund the cancer treatment. [17]

Works

In 1989, Bornstein created a theatre production in collaboration with Noreen Barnes, Hidden: A Gender, based on parallels between her own life and that of the intersex person Herculine Barbin. [18] In 2009, Bornstein's Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks, and Other Outlaws was a Lambda Literary Award Finalist for LGBT Nonfiction and Honorbook for the Stonewall Children's and Young Adult Literature. [19] Bornstein edited Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation in collaboration with S. Bear Bergman. [20] The anthology won Lambda Literary and Publishing Triangle Awards in 2011. [21] [22] Bornstein's autobiography, titled A Queer and Pleasant Danger: A Memoir, was released May 2012, and in April 2013, she released My New Gender Workbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving World Peace Through Gender Anarchy and Sex Positivity. Recently, Bornstein has taken part in a theatrical tour in England. She also took part in being a cast member in the reality TV show of I am Cait. [23]

Books

Performance pieces

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