Lindy West

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Lindy West
Lindy West at BookCon (16410).jpg
West at BookCon, 2019
Born (1982-03-09) March 9, 1982 (age 44)
Seattle, Washington, United States
Education Occidental College
OccupationsWriter, comedian, activist
Notable work Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman
Spouse Ahamefule J. Oluo (m. 2015)
PartnerRoya Amirsoleymani (2021-present)
Parent(s)Paul West
Ingrid West
Relatives Ijeoma Oluo (sister-in-law)
Gabriel Teodros (brother-in-law)
Website lindywest.net

Lindy West (born March 9, 1982) is an American writer, comedian, and activist. She is the author of the essay collections Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman,The Witches Are Coming, and Shit, Actually. Topics she writes about include feminism, popular culture, film, and the fat acceptance movement. [1] [2] [3] [4]

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Career

West worked as the film editor for Seattle's alternative weekly newspaper, The Stranger from 2009 to 2012. [2] [5] In 2010, West’s excoriating review of Sex and the City 2 went viral. [6] [7]

She was a staff writer for Jezebel [8] [9] where she wrote on racism, sexism, and fat shaming. [3] [10] West's work has been published in The Daily Telegraph , [11] GQ , [12] the New York Daily News , [13] Vulture.com, [14] Deadspin, Cracked.com, [15] MSNBC [16] and The Guardian . [2] [17] Describing West's often-comedic approach to serious issues, Dayna Tortorici wrote in The New York Times that West:

We has changed more minds this way than you could count. One of the most distinctive voices advancing feminist politics through humor, West is behind a handful of popular pieces — "How to Make a Rape Joke" on Jezebel, "Hello, I Am Fat" on The Stranger’s blog, "Ask Not for Whom the Bell Trolls; It Trolls for Thee" on "This American Life" — that have helped shift mainstream attitudes about body image, comedy and online harassment over the past several years. Culture molds who we are, West argues, but it’s ours to remold in turn. [18]

In 2013, West won the Women's Media Center Social Media Award, which was presented by Jane Fonda in New York City. [19] Accepting the award, West said, "I hear a lot these days about the lazy, aimless 'millennials' – about how all we want to do is sit around twerking our iPods and Tweedling our Kardashians – and I also hear people asking, 'Where is the next generation of the social justice movement? Where are all the young feminists and womanists and activists?' Dude, they're on the internet." [19] [20]

Also in 2013, Kurt Metzger feuded with West and Jude Doyle via Facebook and Twitter during a defense of rape humor. [21] [22] [23] [24]

On September 19, 2015, West co-founded Shout Your Abortion, a social media campaign on Twitter where people share their abortion experiences online without "sadness, shame or regret" for the purpose of "destigmatization, normalization, and putting an end to shame". The social media campaign was initiated in response to efforts by the United States House of Representatives to defund Planned Parenthood following the Planned Parenthood 2015 undercover videos controversy. [25] [26]

From 2014 to 2017, West had a weekly column at The Guardian. West wrote opinion columns for The New York Times 2016 to 2019. [27]

West’s book Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman was released in 2016. West has since published three additional books. The television adaptation of Shrill aired 2019 to 2021.

West and her husband Ahamefule Oluo cowrote a film “Thin Skin,” directed by Charles Mudede, that was released in 2023. [28] West also premiered her one-woman show Every Castle, Ranked in 2023.

Books and adaptations

In 2016, West won The Stranger's Genius Award in Literature for her book Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman. [29] [30] [1] On March 15, 2019, Shrill, the television series adaptation of West's memoir starring Aidy Bryant, premiered on Hulu. West was an executive producer and writer for the show, which ran for three seasons. [31]

West's second essay collection, The Witches Are Coming, was published on November 5, 2019, by Hachette Book Group.

In October 2020, Hachette Books released West's book Shit, Actually: The Definitive, 100% Objective Guide to Modern Cinema. [32]

West's fourth book Adult Braces, a followup to Shrill, is slated to be released by Grand Central Publishing on March 10, 2026. [33]

Newsletter and podcast

West hosts a Substack newsletter called Butt News. [34] West also has hosted a podcast called the Butt News Movie Club since 2023. [35]

Comedy show

In 2023, West premiered her one woman show Every Castle, Ranked. The production has West presenting a slideshow where she discusses "all the best and the worst castles" while using castles as a metaphor for the squandering of childhood potential. [36]

Personal life

Originally from Seattle, West is the daughter of Ingrid, a nurse, and Paul West, who was a musician. [37] Her dad died in 2011. [38] She attended Occidental College in Los Angeles, California. [2] [39] In 2024, Occidental awarded West an honorary doctorate. [40]

West shared that she had an abortion in 2010 while in a bad relationship. [41]

On July 11, 2015, West married musician and writer Ahamefule J. Oluo, younger sibling of writer Ijeoma Oluo. [42] [43] [44] They started dating in 2011 and briefly split later that year. [38] [45] West has two stepchildren. [46]

West is bisexual [38] and in 2022, West and Oluo revealed that they are polyamorous. [47] West has defined their relationship as a "closed triad." West and Oluo have a shared partner, a woman named Roya who works as an artistic director, and share a house. [38] [48] [49]

Bibliography

References

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  2. 1 2 3 4 "Author Archive: Lindy West." The Stranger. Accessed on January 21, 2012.
  3. 1 2 Brodeur, Nicole (July 7, 2013), "Lindy West: Finding 'Invisible Hypocrisies'", The Seattle Times
  4. "Masthead", The Stranger , archived from the original on November 1, 2011
  5. West, Lindy. "So Long, Suckers!!! I Never Liked You!" The Stranger. September 13, 2011. Accessed on January 21, 2012.
  6. Marantz, Andrew (August 3, 2015). "In Praise of the Rant". The New Yorker . ISSN   0028-792X . Retrieved March 6, 2026.
  7. Child, Ben (June 1, 2010). "Post-credits scene: Sex and the City 2". The Guardian . ISSN   0261-3077 . Retrieved March 6, 2026.
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  9. "Whoa, The Reaction To That Column Was Crazy" RedEye Chicago. Accessed on August 20, 2012.
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  12. "Contributors: Lindy West". GQ . Archived from the original on February 3, 2012. Retrieved January 21, 2012.
  13. West, Lindy. "Anatomy of a racist: Our awkward relationship with Mel Gibson." NY Daily News. July 19, 2010. Accessed on January 21, 2012.
  14. West, Lindy (February 2, 2012). "Glee Recap: Takin' It to the Streets". Vulture.com.
  15. West, Lindy (June 11, 2011). "How To Be a Person: A Guide to Life for the Recent Graduate". Cracked.com.
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  20. Lindy West Receives the WMC's Social Media Award from Jane Fonda (video).
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  31. Bryant, Aidy. "Aidy Bryant On 'Shrill,' 'SNL' Thrills, And Not Feeling Bad About Her Body". NPR.org. Retrieved July 25, 2021.
  32. Shit, Actually. Hachette Book Group. February 4, 2020. ISBN   9780316449847 . Retrieved August 8, 2020.
  33. "Lindy West: Every Castle, Ranked | The Reser" . Retrieved January 20, 2026.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: deprecated archival service (link)
  34. West, Lindy. "Butt News". Substack.
  35. "Huge, Curvy Announcement: I'm Making a Butt News Podcast!". Substack. Retrieved January 20, 2026.
  36. KING 5 Seattle (April 5, 2023). Author Lindy West's new comedy show coming to the Neptune - New Day NW . Retrieved January 20, 2026 via YouTube.{{cite AV media}}: CS1 maint: numeric names: authors list (link)
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  39. "Entertaining Paul West always had 'droll story'; Obituary. (Obituary)", The Seattle Times , December 15, 2011, archived from the original on January 11, 2014
  40. "Honorary Degree Recipients 2024". oxy.edu. Occidental College. 2024. Retrieved May 16, 2024.
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  42. Hamil, Brett (December 2, 2014). "Q&A with Ahamefule J. Oluo". CityArts. Archived from the original on December 31, 2014.
  43. West, Lindy (July 21, 2015). "My wedding was perfect – and I was fat as hell the whole time". The Guardian.
  44. Oluo, Ahamefule J. (July 6, 2011), "My Father Is an African Immigrant and My Mother Is a White Girl from Kansas and I Am Not the President of the United States; Or, How to Disappoint Your Absent Father in 20 Words or Less", The Stranger
  45. West, Lindy (March 22, 2016). "The Last Holdout". The California Sunday Magazine . Retrieved March 6, 2026.
  46. "Q&A: Aham Oluo on Kind of Blue, Generic Jazz, and the State of the Seattle Jazz Scene". Seattle Weekly . February 9, 2010. Retrieved March 6, 2026.
  47. Polyamory Is Not Too Good To Be True: Lindy, Roya, & Aham On The Best Relationship Of Their Lives, YouTube, January 27, 2022, retrieved October 25, 2023
  48. West, Lindy (June 12, 2024). "AMA: My Butt-Called Life". Butt News. Substack. Retrieved January 20, 2026.
  49. West, Lindy (February 4, 2022). "AMA: Nonmonogamy Edition!". Butt News. Substack. Retrieved January 20, 2026.
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