Michael Arceneaux

Last updated
Michael Arceneaux
Born
Michael Joseph Arceneaux

(1984-04-12) April 12, 1984 (age 40)
NationalityAmerican
Education Howard University
OccupationWriter
Era21st century
Notable work I Can't Date Jesus
Website michael-arceneaux.com

Michael Arceneaux (born April 12, 1984) is an American writer. He is the author of three essay collections: I Can't Date Jesus (2018, a New York Times bestselling book), I Don't Want to Die Poor (2020), and I Finally Bought Some Jordans (2024).

Contents

Early life

Michael Joseph Arceneaux was born April 12, 1984, [1] [2] in Houston, Texas, to a working-class Black family from Louisiana. [3] His mother, a registered nurse, [4] was a devout Catholic, and Arceneaux was raised in the church, even briefly considering the priesthood. [5]

Arceneaux, from the Hiram Clarke community, attended Madison High School in Houston. [6] With a combination of scholarships and student loans, [7] he enrolled at Howard University, [3] where he majored in broadcast journalism and wrote for campus newspaper The Hilltop . [8] He graduated in 2007, [9] becoming the first man in his family to graduate from college. [7]

Career

After college, Arceneaux moved to Los Angeles, where he began his writing career. [3] He was an intern at MTV News, and later a columnist for the website. [10] He has written for The Guardian , New York magazine, [3] Essence , Rolling Stone , Teen Vogue , BuzzFeed , Vulture, [11] The Washington Post , [12] The New York Times , and XOJane , as well as writing an advice column, called "Dearly Beloved", at Into. [13]

Books

I Can't Date Jesus

Arceneaux's first book, a collection of 17 humorous personal essays entitled I Can't Date Jesus: Love, Sex, Family, Race, and Other Reasons I’ve Put My Faith in Beyoncé, was published on July 24, 2018 [14] from Atria Books. [15] The book debuted at number 14 on The New York Times best-seller list for paperback nonfiction. [16] It focuses on his early life as a young Black gay man growing up in a religious household in the southern United States. [17] The book's title arises in response to Arceneaux's Catholic upbringing and its implications for him as a gay man, particularly the idea that even if being gay was not a choice, he should not act on it. [18] Finding that theological debates on the subject did not tend to prove fruitful, Arceneaux decided, "Easier to just clarify, 'I plan to have sex, so I can't date Jesus.'" [5] Arceneaux completed the manuscript in 2011, but the search for an agent delayed the book's publication. Ultimately he signed with Jim McCarthy, who had originally declined his query but Arceneaux persisted, sending him more essays to read and McCarthy changed his mind. [3]

Reviewers have compared Arceneaux's essay collection to the work of Roxane Gay, [14] David Sedaris, [19] and Samantha Irby. [13] In Vogue , Chloe Schama and Bridget Read noted Arceneaux's "hysterically funny, vulnerable" style, calling the collection "a triumph of self-exploration, tinged with but not overburdened by his reckoning with our current political moment...The result is a piece of personal and cultural storytelling that is as fun as it is illuminating." [20]

I Don't Want to Die Poor

Arceneaux's second book, I Don't Want to Die Poor (2020), [21] expands on his essay for The New York Times describing his private student loan debt. [5] [9]

I Finally Bought Some Jordans

Arceneaux’s third book, I Finally Bought Some Jordans, was scheduled to be released on March 12, 2024. [22]

See also

Related Research Articles

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Beyoncé</span> American singer and songwriter (born 1981)

Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter is an American singer, songwriter, and businesswoman. Nicknamed "Queen Bey", she is regarded as a prominent cultural figure of the 21st century. Throughout her two-decade career, Beyoncé has been recognized for her distinctive vocal range and live concert performances. Rolling Stone named her the world's greatest living entertainer in 2022, and one of the greatest vocalists of all time in 2023.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">David Sedaris</span> American humorist and author (born 1956)

David Raymond Sedaris is an American humorist, comedian, author, and radio contributor. He was publicly recognized in 1992 when National Public Radio broadcast his essay "Santaland Diaries". He published his first collection of essays and short stories, Barrel Fever, in 1994. His next book, Naked (1997), became his first of a series of New York Times Bestsellers, and his 2000 collection Me Talk Pretty One Day won the Thurber Prize for American Humor.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Joan Didion</span> American writer (1934–2021)

Joan Didion was an American writer and journalist. She is considered one of the pioneers of New Journalism, along with Gay Talese, Hunter S. Thompson, and Tom Wolfe.

Theodore Bruce Bawer is an American-Norwegian writer. Born and raised in New York, he has been a resident of Norway since 1999 and became a citizen of Norway in 2024. He is a literary, film, and cultural critic and a novelist and poet, who has also written about gay rights, Christianity, and Islam.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Gay Talese</span> American writer (born 1932)

Gaetano "Gay" Talese is an American writer. As a journalist for The New York Times and Esquire magazine during the 1960s, Talese helped to define contemporary literary journalism and is considered, along with Tom Wolfe, Joan Didion, and Hunter S. Thompson, one of the pioneers of New Journalism. Talese's most famous articles are about Joe DiMaggio and Frank Sinatra.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Denis Johnson</span> American novelist and poet (1949–2017)

Denis Hale Johnson was an American novelist, short-story writer, and poet. He is perhaps best known for his debut short story collection, Jesus' Son (1992). His most successful novel, Tree of Smoke (2007), won the National Book Award for Fiction. Johnson was twice shortlisted for the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction. Altogether, Johnson was the author of nine novels, one novella, two books of short stories, three collections of poetry, two collections of plays, and one book of reportage. His final work, a book of short stories titled The Largesse of the Sea Maiden, was published posthumously in 2018.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Marsha P. Johnson</span> Black American gay liberation activist (1945–1992)

Marsha P. Johnson was an American gay liberation activist and self-identified drag queen. Known as an outspoken advocate for gay rights, Johnson was one of the prominent figures in the Stonewall uprising of 1969.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Shmuley Boteach</span> American Orthodox rabbi and writer (born 1966)

Jacob Shmuel Boteach, known as Shmuley Boteach, is an American rabbi, author, and media host.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Madison High School (Houston)</span> Public school in Houston, Texas, United States

James Madison High School is a public high school located in the Hiram Clarke area of Houston, Texas, United States. The school, located in the Five Corners District, serves grades 9 through 12 and is part of the Houston Independent School District. The school is named after James Madison, the fourth President of the United States.

Michael Perry is an American author, born and raised in New Auburn, Wisconsin.

<i>It Gets Better</i> (book) 2011 book by Dan Savage

It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living is a non-fiction compilation book, edited by Dan Savage and his husband, Terry Miller. It was published March 22, 2011 by Dutton. The book includes selections of essays inspired by the It Gets Better Project, founded by Savage. He decided to start the project after a series of incidents of suicide among LGBT youth. Individuals were encouraged to submit videos with a message of hope and optimism for teenagers who were victims of bullying due to their sexual orientation. Over 100 essays are contained in the book. Contributors include finance advisor Suze Orman; comedic writer David Sedaris; United States Secretary of State Hillary Clinton; and President of the United States Barack Obama.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Homosexuality in American football</span> LGBTQ history in American Football

There has been only one player who has publicly come out as gay or bisexual while being an active player in the National Football League (NFL): Carl Nassib, who revealed himself as gay on June 21, 2021, while with the Las Vegas Raiders. He became the first openly gay player to play in an NFL game on September 13, 2021. He later became the first openly gay player in an NFL playoff game on January 15, 2022. Six former NFL players have come out publicly after they retired. In the 2014 NFL draft, the St. Louis Rams drafted Michael Sam in the seventh round, the 249th of 256 players selected, which made him the first openly gay player to be drafted into the NFL. However, on August 30, St. Louis released Sam as part of a final round of cuts to reduce their roster to the league-mandated 53 players before the start of the regular season.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Roxane Gay</span> American writer (born 1974)

Roxane Gay is an American writer, professor, editor, and social commentator. Gay is the author of The New York Times best-selling essay collection Bad Feminist (2014), as well as the short story collection Ayiti (2011), the novel An Untamed State (2014), the short story collection Difficult Women (2017), and the memoir Hunger (2017).

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Christianity in Houston</span> Most prevalent religion in the US city

Christianity is the most widely practiced religion in the city of Houston, Texas. In 2012, Kate Shellnutt of the Houston Chronicle described Houston as a "heavily Christian city". Multiple Christian denominations originating from various countries are practiced in the city; among its Christian population, the majority are either Catholic, Baptist, or non/interdenominational.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">LGBTQ culture in Houston</span>

Houston has a large and diverse LGBT population and is home to the 4th largest gay pride parade in the nation. Houston has the largest LGBT population of any city in the state of Texas.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Hanif Abdurraqib</span> American poet and essayist

Hanif Abdurraqib is an American poet, essayist, and cultural critic. His first essay collection, They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us, was published in 2017. His 2021 essay collection A Little Devil in America: Notes in Praise of Black Performance received the 2022 Andrew Carnegie Medal for Excellence. Abdurraqib was awarded a MacArthur Fellowship in 2021.

This bibliography of Donald Trump is a list of written and published works, by and about Donald Trump, the former President of the United States. Due to the sheer volume of books about Trump, the titles listed here are limited to non-fiction books about Trump or his presidency, published by notable authors and scholars. Tertiary sources, satire, and self-published books are excluded.

Rebecca Morris is a New York Times bestselling true-crime author and a TV, radio and print journalist who lives in Seattle, Washington.

John Randall Anthony Taraborrelli is an American journalist and celebrity biographer. Prior to his book-writing career, he was a magazine journalist and editor-in-chief of Soul magazine, the black entertainment title. Taraborrelli is known for biographies of contemporary entertainers and political figures such as Frank Sinatra, Diana Ross, Marilyn Monroe, Michael Jackson, Madonna, the Kennedy family, the Hilton family, and Beyoncé. He also regularly appears on television as an entertainment news reporter on programs such as Entertainment Tonight, Good Morning America, Today and CBS This Morning. Taraborrelli lives in California.

<i>I Cant Date Jesus</i> Book by Michael Arceneaux

I Can’t Date Jesus: Love, Sex, Family, Race, and Other Reasons I’ve Put My Faith in Beyoncé is a 2018 collection of essays by Michael Arceneaux. Published by Atria Books, the collection includes seventeen essays, discussing Arceneaux's conflicting identities, his internalized homophobia, his journey as a writer, and his experiences dating. It also discusses his passion for the singer Beyoncé, who shares his hometown of Houston, Texas.

References

  1. "EBONY MAGAZINE on Twitter". Twitter. April 12, 2012. Archived from the original on 2021-02-15. Retrieved 2018-07-22.
  2. Arceneaux, Michael (January 14, 2017). "Michael Jackson, Urban Myths and the Grease From Jermaine Jackson's Fade". The Root. Archived from the original on 2018-07-23. Retrieved 2018-07-22.
  3. 1 2 3 4 5 Patrick, Diane (June 15, 2018). "What Would Beyoncé Do? Michael Arceneaux's Asking". Publishers Weekly. Archived from the original on 23 July 2018. Retrieved 22 July 2018.
  4. Arceneaux, Michael (2013-03-06). "Sex-Ed in Kindergarten?". Ebony. Archived from the original on 2021-02-15. Retrieved 2018-07-24.
  5. 1 2 3 Harris-Perry, Melissa (15 June 2018). "'I Don't Do Sad Gay': Michael Arceneaux in Conversation With Melissa Harris Perry". Elle. Archived from the original on 23 July 2018. Retrieved 22 July 2018.
  6. Gross, Terry (2018-07-23). "Growing Up Black, Gay And Catholic In Texas, Memoirist Put His Faith In Beyoncé". NPR. Archived from the original on 2018-08-06. Retrieved 2018-08-06. ARCENEAUX: I love Howard University now. [...] And I remember one girl specifically saying, oh, my God, you went to Madison High School, and you're from Hiram Clarke, and you go here.
  7. 1 2 Arceneaux, Michael (February 20, 2009). "Is College Worth It?". The Root. Archived from the original on 2018-07-23. Retrieved 2018-07-22.
  8. Meade Jr., Tommy G. (2016-07-31). "Howard Alum Michael Arceneaux Basically Wants To Know Who Keeps Asking Bow Wow Questions". HBCU Buzz. Archived from the original on 2018-07-23. Retrieved 2018-07-22.
  9. 1 2 Arceneaux, Michael (February 10, 2018). "Opinion | The Student Loan Serenity Prayer". The New York Times. Archived from the original on 2018-07-22. Retrieved 2018-07-22.
  10. "Paramount Guts History To Save Money And We All Suffer From Their Cheapness", by Michael Arceneaux. HuffPost Opinion, July 10, 2024.
  11. Vulture
  12. Gilson, D. (2018-06-27). "'I Can't Date Jesus: Love, Sex, Family, Race, And Other Reasons..." Lambda Literary. Archived from the original on 2021-02-15. Retrieved 2018-07-22.
  13. 1 2 Anderson, Tre'vell (July 29, 2018). "Why Michael Arceneaux 'Can't Date Jesus'". Los Angeles Times. Archived from the original on 23 July 2018. Retrieved 22 July 2018.
  14. 1 2 "Nonfiction Book Review: I Can't Date Jesus: Love, Sex, Family, Race, and Other Reasons I've Put My Faith in Beyoncé by Michael Arceneaux. Atria, $17 trade paper (256p) ISBN 978-1-5011-7885-6". Publishers Weekly. April 16, 2018. Archived from the original on 2018-07-23. Retrieved 2018-07-22.
  15. Gonzalez, Catherine Lizette (29 June 2018). "The Must-Read Race and Culture Books of the Summer | ColorLines". ColorLines. Archived from the original on 23 July 2018. Retrieved 22 July 2018.
  16. "Paperback Nonfiction Books - Best Sellers - The New York Times". The New York Times. Archived from the original on 2018-08-02. Retrieved 2018-08-03.
  17. Mania, Greg (2018-07-24). "Michael Arceneaux On Why He Can't Date Jesus". PAPER. Archived from the original on 2018-07-25. Retrieved 2018-07-25.
  18. Young, Danielle (July 24, 2018). "Michael Arceneaux's Debut Book, I Can't Date Jesus is For Those Who Unapologetically Bop...With Chicken Wings". The Root. Archived from the original on 2018-07-24. Retrieved 2018-07-24.
  19. Abadsidis, Savas (2018-05-28). "On the Shelf". The Advocate. Archived from the original on 2021-02-15. Retrieved 2018-07-24.
  20. Schama, Chloe; Read, Bridget (May 30, 2018). "13 Books to Thrill, Entertain, and Sustain You This Summer". Vogue. Archived from the original on 2018-07-25. Retrieved 2018-07-24.
  21. Irby, Samantha (2018-07-23). "Country, Black Ass, Queer Perspective: Talking with Michael Arceneaux". The Rumpus. Archived from the original on 2018-07-24. Retrieved 2018-07-24.
  22. Parham, Jason (2024-03-06). "Grief changes you. Michael Arceneaux is writing through it". Los Angeles Times. Retrieved 2024-03-07.