Of Boys and Men

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Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It (2022) is a book by British author Richard Reeves.

In the book, Reeves argues that the advancement of women's rights and the changing job market, which now values cognitive skills over physical strength, have left some men feeling insecure and uncertain about their place in the world (i.e. without ontological security). [1]

The book also highlights the difficulties boys face in education. It suggests that boys are not performing as well academically as girls (with women outperforming men in various academic and professional domains), which can affect their future opportunities and contribute to their overall sense of frustration. It also notes the struggles faced by men in fulfilling their roles as providers and fathers, citing research which says that men in the US are now more likely to feel socially excluded and less likely to be successful after divorce. [2] [3] [4]

Reeves says that these challenges have particularly hit Black men the hardest, as years of higher incarceration rates among Black men have severely limited their prospects in life. Similarly, men without college degrees have experienced declining wages, notable drops in life expectancy, and increased rates of family disruption. [1] He notes that aspects of hypermasculinity promoted by popular culture is off-putting to modern men, [3] and says that efforts towards achieving gender equality should now prioritize addressing the needs and concerns of boys rather than exclusively focusing on girls and women. [1]

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References

  1. 1 2 3 Kahloon, Idrees (23 January 2023). "What's the Matter with Men?". The New Yorker.
  2. Kotsonis, Stefano; Chakrabarti, Meghna (11 November 2022). "Richard Reeves on why the modern male is struggling, and what to do about it". WBUR. Retrieved 9 July 2023.
  3. 1 2 Anthony, Andrew (3 October 2022). "Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves review – the descent of man". The Guardian. Retrieved 9 July 2023.
  4. Bueno, Julia (9 December 2022). "No boy left behind: Addressing the "male malaise"". TLS.