Terese Marie Mailhot

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Terese Marie Mailhot
Born (1983-06-14) 14 June 1983 (age 41)
OccupationWriter
Journalist
Memoirist
Teacher
NationalityCanadian
Education New Mexico State University
Institute of American Indian Arts
Purdue University
GenreMemoir
Years active2015-present
Spouse
Casey Gray
(divorced)
Children3
Website
TereseMailhot.com

Terese Marie Mailhot (born 15 June 1983) is a First Nation Canadian writer, journalist, memoirist, and teacher. [1] [2]

Contents

Early life and education

Mailhot grew up in Seabird Island, British Columbia, on the Seabird Island First Nation reservation. Her mother, Wahzinak, was a healer, social worker, poet, and radical activist, and her father, Ken Mailhot, was an artist. [3] Her father had been incarcerated and was an alcoholic who molested Mailhot when she was young, and was often violent. [4] Mailhot's mother had a letter-writing relationship with Salvador Agron, and shared the correspondence with musician Paul Simon, who used them for his Broadway musical, The Capeman. The role of Wahzinak was portrayed by Sara Ramirez in the musical. [5] She is one of four children. [6] As a child Mailhot had tuberculosis. [7] She was in foster care periodically and eventually aged out of the system.

Mailhot's background is Nlaka'pamux, part of the indigenous First Nations people of the Interior Salish language group in southern British Columbia. [3] Her maternal grandmother, who she was close to, was raised in the brutal Canadian Indian residential school system. [8]

Mailhot got her GED and attended community college. Mailhot graduated with a bachelor's degree in English from New Mexico State University. In 2016, Mailhot received an MFA in fiction from the Institute of American Indian Arts. [6] [9]

Career

Mailhot was a columnist at Indian Country Today [10] and was Saturday Editor at The Rumpus. [11] She taught English and composition at Dona Ana Community College in Las Cruces, New Mexico. [12]

In 2017, Mailhot became a post-doctoral fellow at the English Department at Purdue University, where she works with the Native American Educational and Cultural Center. [12] Mailhot is also a professor at the Institute of American Indian Arts. [9] [13]

In 2018, Mailhot released her debut book, Heart Berries: A Memoir. [14] Heart Berries deals with sexual abuse, trauma, violence, substance abuse, going hungry, being poor, and neglect. Mailhot has said she sees her journey as being one that reflects intergenerational trauma and genocide. She uses the term "Indian sick" to describe the idea of cleansing the heart and mind in a spiritual process, which is how her community often processes these experiences. [15] The title Heart Berries comes from a story about the healer O'dimin, the Heart Berry Boy, that an Ojibwe friend who is a language teacher told her. [16] The book received overwhelmingly positive reviews in both popular and specialist sources. [17] [18] In March 2018, actress Emma Watson chose Mailhot's book as one of the monthly selections for her book club on Goodreads. [19] Heart Berries is a New York Times bestseller. [20]

Mailhot began writing her memoir while she was institutionalized in a mental institution. [8] [21] Mailhot had committed herself after having a mental breakdown related to dealing with childhood sexual abuse by her father. [14] The book consists of many essays that Mailhot wrote during her years as an MFA student. [2] Some of the book is written from Mailhot to her then-partner, Casey Gray, using an epistolary approach to reflecting on memories of the past. [15]

"Literary non-hottie" controversy

After the 2022 film Blonde , based on the life of Marilyn Monroe, faced criticism for "failing to break away from the media’s habit of fetishizing and (re-)exploiting women," Mailhot attracted controversy for stating that Joyce Carol Oates, who wrote the novel on which the film was based, was a "literary non-hottie" who "shouldn't have written" the novel and "women who look and act like Oates have no compassion or love for women like [Monroe]." [22] The statement was widely derided for being a cruel misunderstanding of the privilege of attractiveness; according to Molly Bradley of Digg :

There is a lot to unpack in [Mailhot's critique]. First is the assertion that people who aren’t “hotties”—a fairly subjective measure—shouldn’t write about women who are. Second is the implication that women not subjectively assessed as “hotties” know nothing about being sexualized by men, or media, or whoever else. No, not everyone looks like Marilyn Monroe or goes through the experience Monroe did—but that’s exactly the point: different women have different, but equally treacherous, experiences with this kind of thing, whether they’re celebrities or sex workers or anyone else in myriad different walks of life. [22]

Personal life

Mailhot has discussed that she suffers from both post-traumatic stress disorder and bipolar II disorder. [23]

Mailhot was married as a teenager [24] and later married the writer Casey Gray. [25] She has four sons. [26]

Fellowships

Selected works and publications

Selected publications

Books

See also

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