The Love Language

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The Love Language
Origin Raleigh, North Carolina
Genres Indie, lo-fi, pop
Years active2008–present
LabelsBladen County,
Merge
MembersStuart McLamb
Thomas Simpson
Autumn Ehinger
Eddie Sanchez
Jordan McLamb
Kris Hilbert
Past membersChristopher Hutcherson-Riddle
Josh Pope
Kate Thompson
Missy Thangs
Jeff Chapple
BJ Burton
Justin Rodermond
Nick Sanborn
Andy Holmes
Ryan Gustafson
Justin Williams
Ian Lockey
Carter Gaj
Jodi Burns
Skylar Gudasz
Josh Moore
Megan Glassman
Paul Thornley
Andrew Lessman
Mark Connor
Website www.thelovelanguage.com

The Love Language is an American indie rock band from Raleigh, North Carolina, headed by Stuart McLamb.

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Origin

The Love Language began after frontman Stuart McLamb's first band, The Capulets, broke up. Following a breakup with his girlfriend, McLamb went on a drinking binge and then retreated to his parents' house, where he began recording a series of demos. [1] These songs were originally intended to be heard only by McLamb's ex-girlfriend and a handful of friends, [2] but the demos expanded into a full recording project. [3]

Music

McLamb's first album, The Love Language, was released under Bladen County Records. Recorded entirely by McLamb, the album caught the attention of fellow North Carolina rockers, The Rosebuds, who asked The Love Language to open for them. To play live, McLamb formed a band with Kate Thompson (keyboard), Jeff Chapple (guitar), Josh Pope (bass), Tom Simpson (drums), and his brother Jordan McLamb (drums, acoustic guitar). [3]

The Love Language was then signed to Durham-based Merge Records and released their second album Libraries in July 2010. Unlike the first album, Libraries [4] was recorded in a traditional studio with help from producer BJ Burton.

Burton was also recruited to play guitar while touring along with Missy, Jordan, Kevin, and Justin Rodermond (bass).

Songwriting and Recording

Stuart McLamb's songwriting often characterized as autobiographical, he pulls straight from his personal experiences. In various interviews, he discussed how tough times, like breakups, battles with alcohol, and feeling lost about where his life was headed, really influenced the early songs from The Love Language. Instead of trying to hide those moments, he wove them right into his lyrics and music. It became his way of working through those hard feelings and seeing them in a new light. This approach contributed to the emotionally direct quality and heartfelt vibe that critics often noted in the band’s early releases. [5]

McLamb has described his creative process as if he's painting a picture, focusing more on the act of making it than getting everything perfect. He has stated that each album captures a slice of where he was at emotionally and artistically when he recorded it, like a photo from that exact time in his life. As a result, chasing a uniform sound or slick production across records to sell more copies has not been his priority. Instead, shifts in style and mood from one album to the next are treated as he grows and life changes around him. [5]

In terms of making music, McLamb started out mostly doing it all by himself in the studio. He writes the songs, plays all the instruments, and layers them individually, rather than performed by a full band in real time. Even once he put together a group for touring and shows, he stuck with that solo recording style as a core part of how he works. The Love Language ends up feeling more like McLamb's personal recording project than a traditional band with set members. People just come in to help with gigs or certain sessions when it fits. [6]

Discography

Stuart McLamb at The Soapbox, Wilmington, NC 2012 The Love Language, 11-16-2012, The Soapbox, Wilmington, NC.jpg
Stuart McLamb at The Soapbox, Wilmington, NC 2012
YearAlbum detailsPeak chart positions
US Heat [7]
2009The Love Language
  • Release date: February 10, 2009 [8]
  • Label: Bladen County Records
2010 Libraries 14
2013 Ruby Red
2018Baby Grand

References

  1. Hot New Band: The Love Language, interview with Spin magazine
  2. The Love Language, the love language at Merge Records
  3. 1 2 The Love Language: Stu McLamb's Take on Pop, interview with Crib Notes of "Creative Loafing"
  4. "Second album give The Love Language reason to party". Wilmington Star-News. Retrieved December 9, 2023.
  5. 1 2 McLamb, Stuart. "The Love Language on Process and Perspective". Under the Radar. Retrieved January 9, 2026.
  6. "The Love Language – Artist Profile". Bandcamp.
  7. "Billboard chart search: The Love Language". Billboard .[ dead link ]
  8. "The Love Language on Merge Records".