Debs (ball)

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A school's Debs, also called Grad or Grads, is the formal ball for students in their final year of secondary school in the Republic of Ireland, [1] analogous to the prom in North American schools or the school formal in Australia. [2] [3] It is most commonly referred to as the "Debs" (from "debutante") but some schools (mainly boys' or coeducational) call it the "Grad" or "Grads" (from graduation). Each ball is associated with a specific school, which may take place during the school year, immediately after the Leaving Certificate examinations in June, or after the results are announced in August. Some schools have a smaller "pre-Debs" some months before the Debs. Other schools, including in Tralee, hold their Debs in January. [4]

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Organisation

A Debs or Grads is often organised by someone other than the school itself. [5] In some cases, a student committee is created within the school to organise the event in collaboration with selected teachers or parents. [5] [6] [7] Some organisers pay an events company to assist with the event-planning activities.[ citation needed ]

The events are typically held at a hotel or other large function room. [6] A Debs is usually, though not always, a formal dinner, followed by music. Alcohol is almost always served. Traditionally there is a photographer present, who will take individual shots of each couple and throughout the event. It is not uncommon for the event to last all night, with some attendees returning home the following morning, or going for breakfast together. Some hotels provide breakfast. [6]

Participation

Corsage given by date Wrist corsage.jpg
Corsage given by date

Some students may worry about being invited or finding a date, but many attend with friends or in a group.[ citation needed ]

People are usually dressed in formal black tie, gowns or dresses. These are often adorned with a corsage. While formal attire is traditional, it is not required for entrance.[ citation needed ] It is customary for men to purchase a corsage, flowers or a box of chocolates for their dates if they are women. [1] [8]

Controversy

In 1998, at a hearing between Judge Desmond Windle and a school solicitor from Newpark Comprehensive about a late night bar extension, the judge stated that the term "Debs ball" should not be used to describe a school leavers dance because its origins were in "archaic" practices associated with royal courts, and "nothing to do with a Republic". Describing the term as "nonsensical" and "absurd", the judge showed particular disdain for the term as he believed that its use in Ireland derived from the English royal court, despite the word "debutante" being French in origin. [9]

News outlets in 2012 and 2013 published articles featuring the money spent by attendees, on average €695-€825 on the night, including spend on dresses. [10] [11] The events also face criticism as the nights often have a heavy focus on alcohol, and associated by some with "drunkenness and rowdy behaviour". [5]

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