Heather Havrilesky (born June 1970) [1] [2] [3] [4] [5] is an American author, essayist, and humorist. She writes the advice column "Ask Polly" for Substack . She is the author of Disaster Preparedness: A Memoir, the advice book How to Be a Person in the World and the essay collection What If This Were Enough? [6] [2]
In 1996, Havrilesky was hired as a staff writer at Suck.com, a webzine that was one of the web's earliest ad-supported content sites. Together with artist Terry Colon, she wrote the popular "Filler" comic strip for the site under the pen name Polly Esther. [7] [8]
In 2001, Havrilesky started an advice column on her personal blog called Dear Rabbit. [9] In May of that year, she began writing an advice column on Suck, but the site went under a month later. [10]
Havrilesky began writing for Salon in 2003 as their TV critic. [11] In 2011, Havrilesky became one of the original columnists for The Daily , the world's first iPad-only news app. [12] Havrilesky exited that position soon after the app launched, [13] and the site was shuttered by its parent News Corporation in December 2012.
She pitched an advice column called Ask Polly to The Awl in 2012, which ran as a weekly feature. [14] New York magazine began publishing the column in 2014. [15] [16] Each column addresses a single letter requesting advice. [16]
Havrilesky's first book, Disaster Preparedness: A Memoir (2010), [17] is an autobiographical work, it dealt mostly with her upbringing in Durham, North Carolina. [18] Her second book, How to Be a Person in the World, was released in July 2016. The book was made up of new Ask Polly advice columns along with a handful of her most popular previously published columns. [19] Her third book, the essay collection What If This Were Enough? was released in 2018. [20] Erin Keane of Salon.com summarized the book as follows: "Havrilesky peels back the layers of late-capitalism malaise that bind us to the promise of some better version of ourselves lurking just beyond our reach, and dares us instead to accept our current, flawed lives, suffering and all, in order to settle into a less anxious and resentful present." [20]
Havrilesky lives with her husband Bill in North Carolina. They have two daughters. [5]
Isaac Asimov was an American writer and professor of biochemistry at Boston University. During his lifetime, Asimov was considered one of the "Big Three" science fiction writers, along with Robert A. Heinlein and Arthur C. Clarke. A prolific writer, he wrote or edited more than 500 books. He also wrote an estimated 90,000 letters and postcards. Best known for his hard science fiction, Asimov also wrote mysteries and fantasy, as well as popular science and other non-fiction.
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Survivalism is a social movement of individuals or groups who proactively prepare for emergencies, such as natural disasters, and other disasters causing disruption to social order caused by political or economic crises. Preparations may anticipate short-term scenarios or long-term, on scales ranging from personal adversity, to local disruption of services, to international or global catastrophe. There is no bright line dividing general emergency preparedness from prepping in the form of survivalism, but a qualitative distinction is often recognized whereby preppers/survivalists prepare especially extensively because they have higher estimations of the risk of catastrophes happening. Nonetheless, prepping can be as limited as preparing for a personal emergency, or it can be as extensive as a personal identity or collective identity with a devoted lifestyle.
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