Intimacy coordinator

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An intimacy coordinator, sometimes called an intimacy director, [1] is a member of a film or television crew who ensures the well-being of actors and actresses who participate in sex scenes or other intimate scenes in theater, film and television production. Intimacy coordinators work closely with directors, movement directors, and choreographers to help plan out intimate scenes with the actors and other crew members. [2]

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Function

According to Intimacy Directors International, a nonprofit organization founded in 2016 by Alicia Rodis, Tonia Sina, and Siobhan Richardson [3] that advocates for the function, an intimacy coordinator is expected to ensure that: [4]

The role of intimacy coordinator is not to be confused with that of an "intimacy choreographer", who specializes in the techniques of staging intimate scenes. [5] [ failed verification ]

History

Demand for the role grew in the U.S. entertainment industry after the 2017 Weinstein scandal and the Me Too movement highlighted the often routine nature of sexual harassment and misconduct in the industry. Actresses such as Emily Meade began to demand professional safeguards for their well-being on set, noting that given the structure of power in a production, actors (particularly young, inexperienced ones) might otherwise not feel able to speak up if directors, staff members or other actors disregarded their consent or previous agreements regarding intimate scenes. [6] In 2017, the London talent agency Carey Dodd Associates fronted a campaign for an industry standard in handling scenes of intimacy using guidelines developed by Ita O'Brien. [7]

In October 2018, television network HBO adopted a policy of using intimacy coordinators for all its series and films with intimate scenes. [8] Intimacy coordinators and workshops teaching best practices for intimate scenes began being used in London theaters in 2018. [9]

In January 2019, Netflix released Sex Education , its first production that used an intimacy coordinator, Ita O'Brien. [10]

Industry reactions

Actors and filmmakers including Gaspar Noé, Mia Hansen-Løve, Toni Collette, Michael Douglas, [11] Michael Caine, [12] and Sean Bean [13] have criticized the use of intimacy coordinators. Emma Thompson, Sydney Sweeney, Kate Winslet, Olivia Cooke, [14] and James Gunn among others defend the practice. [15]

The fourth season of the TV series High Maintenance featured a storyline on an intimacy coordinator, portrayed by Abigail Bengson. Series co-creator and director Katja Blichfeld spoke in support of the profession, noting it was "a relief to be able to turn to a person for these moments that, in the past, we've had to navigate to our best ability." [16]

Sam Levinson's 2023 TV series The Idol satirized the use of intimacy coordinators. [17]

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