John Gottman

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John Gottman
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Born
John Mordecai Gottman

(1942-04-26) April 26, 1942 (age 82)
NationalityAmerican
Education
Known for Cascade Model of Relational Dissolution
Spouse Julie Schwartz Gottman
ChildrenMoriah Gottman
Scientific career
Fields Psychology
Institutions University of Washington
Website www.gottman.com

John Mordecai Gottman (born April 26, 1942) is an American psychologist and professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Washington. His research focuses on divorce prediction and marital stability through relationship analyses. Gottman's work is centered on the field of relationship counseling: enhanced relationship functioning and mitigation of behaviors detrimental to human relationships. [1] Gottman's work has also contributed to the development of important concepts on social sequence analysis. [2]

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In 1996, [3] Gottman co-founded and led The Gottman Institute alongside his wife, psychologist Julie Schwartz Gottman. Together, they are the co-founders of Affective Software Inc., a program seeking to make marriage and relationship counseling procedures more accessible to a broader audience. [4]

Personal life

John Gottman was born on April 26, 1942, in the Dominican Republic to Orthodox Jewish parents. His father was a rabbi in pre-World War II Vienna. Gottman was educated in a Lubavitch Yeshiva Elementary School in Brooklyn. Gottman practices Conservative Judaism, keeps kosher (follows Jewish dietary laws) and observes Shabbat. [5]

In 1987, he married Julie Schwartz, a psychotherapist. His two previous marriages had ended in divorce. [6] He has a daughter named Moriah Gottman. [7] John and Julie Gottman live in Washington state.

Education and work experience

John Gottman received his bachelor's degree in Mathematics-Physics from Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1962. In 1964, he earned his master's in Mathematics-Psychology from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. He received a second master's degree in Clinical Psychology-Mathematics in 1967, and a PhD in Clinical Psychology in 1971 from the University of Wisconsin. [8]

At Fairleigh Dickinson University, Gottman worked as an instructor for the mathematics department, a research assistant for the department of physics, and a researcher for the school of engineering. At the Lawrence Radiation Laboratory , he worked as a computer programmer and mathematician. He was a program evaluator and research designer for the Wisconsin Department of Public Instruction. In 1981, Gottman became a professor of psychology at the University of Illinois. Additionally, he was a professor of psychology at the University of Washington for 16 years. Since 2002, Gottman has worked as the emeritus Professor of Psychology for the University of Washington and as the executive director for the Relationship Research Institute in Seattle. [8]

Awards and honors

Gottman has been the recipient of four National Institute of Mental Health Research Scientist Awards: the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Distinguished Research Scientist Award, the American Family Therapy Academy [9] Award for Most Distinguished Contributor to Family Systems Research, the American Psychological Association Division of Family Psychology, Presidential Citation for Outstanding Lifetime Research Contribution and the National Council of Family Relations, [10] 1994 Burgess Award for Outstanding Career in Theory and Research. [11] In addition, Gottman takes a spot in the Psychotherapy Networker's Top 10 Most Influential Therapists of the past quarter-century. [8]

In 2021, Gottman received an honorary Doctor of Science degree from the University of Wisconsin–Madison. [12]

Works

Gottman has published over 190 papers, and is the author or co-author of 40 books, notably: [11]

See also

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References

  1. The Gottman Institute. Online Abstracts of Published Research Articles. Accessed online 14 October 2008.
  2. Bakeman, Roger; Quera, Vicenç (2011). Sequential Analysis and Observational Methods for the Behavioral Sciences. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press. ISBN   978-1-107-00124-4.
  3. John Gottman. John Gottman, Ph.D., Licensed Clinical Psychologist Archived 2009-02-26 at the Wayback Machine . Accessed online 14 October 2008.
  4. "Affective Software, Inc". affectivesoftware.com. Retrieved 2021-07-07.
  5. Weinstein, Natalie (30 May 1997), "Do you want to raise a mensch? Psychology researcher tells how", The Jewish Bulletin of Northern California
  6. "Gottman Rite Held". Wisconsin State Journal. No. p.2, section 5. 14 February 1971.
  7. Gottman, John M. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Harmony; 1st edition. pp. Dedication page. ISBN   978-0609805794.
  8. 1 2 3 "John & Julie Gottman - About". The Gottman Institute. Retrieved 2020-11-04.
  9. American Family Therapy Academy website
  10. "Home | National Council on Family Relations". www.ncfr.org.
  11. 1 2 "About John Gottman" Archived 2010-01-27 at the Wayback Machine on the Gottman Institute website
  12. "Ella, Nosbusch, Grant to receive honorary degrees from UW–Madison". news.wisc.edu. Retrieved 2022-08-05.