Marriage market

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A marriage market is a public place where parents list advertisements for their children with the aim of finding a marital spouse for them. [1] People then congregate there and read the listings, often in the hope of finding a marital match. [2] Several marriage markets exist in China, such as Shanghai's marriage market at People's Square [2] [3] and at several parks and other public places in Beijing, such as shopping malls. [1]

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Alternatively, a marriage market can involve the use of marriage brokers [4] and marriage bureaus [5] that are involved in matchmaking to unite people in marriage. [4] [6] In October 2011, marriage markets in India involving the use of brokers were estimated to be a $250 billion (Indian Rupee) industry. [7] Marriage markets using brokers exists in New Delhi, India [4] and in several other regions of India.

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