Author | Frank Pittman, M.D. |
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Cover artist | Margaret M. Wagner (book design) |
Country | United States |
Language | English |
Subject | infidelity, intimacy, marriage, relationships |
Genre | family therapy, psychiatry |
Publisher | W. W. Norton & Company |
Publication date | 1989 |
Media type | Hardcover |
Pages | 320 |
ISBN | 0-393-02634-5 |
OCLC | 17954463 |
306.7/36 19 | |
LC Class | HQ806 .P57 1989 |
Preceded by | Turning Points: Treating Families in Transition and Crisis 1987 |
Followed by | Man enough: fathers, sons and the search for masculinity 1994, Grow Up!: How Taking Responsibility Can Make You a Happy Adult 1999 |
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