Traditional marriage in Hausa culture

Last updated

Traditional marriage in Hausa Culture
Marriage
Hausa Traditional Wedding and dressing 21.jpg
EthnicityHausa
LocationNorthern Nigeria
Language Hausa Language
Religion Muslim Christian

About a quarter of Nigeria's population are Hausa. They are predominantly Muslim, but some are Christians. [1] They speak the Hausa language, although different tribes speak different dialects. Hausa traditional marriage is not as expensive as other forms of marriage in Nigeria. [2] Hausa traditional marriage is based on Islamic or Sharia law. [3]

Contents

In this tradition, a man seeks his parents' consent when he finds a woman he intends to marry.[ citation needed ] After the parents have given their consent, the other marital rites follow suit. These stages include Na Gani Ina so, Sadaki, the wedding or Daura Aure/Shafa Fatiha, and Kai Amariya.[ further explanation needed ]

Na Gani Ina so

In the Hausa language, this means "I have found and I love it". This is a stage when the man with his family members goes to the woman's house to make their intention known to her parents. They carry along with them some items such as Kolanuts, bags of salt, sweets and chocolate. [2] If these items were accepted by the bride's parents, that means they have agreed to give out their daughter's hand in marriage to the groom's family. It is now left for the family of the bride to communicate to the groom's family of their approval of the marriage. This process is called "Gaisuwa". [4] Before this they might have done their enquiry concerning the man seeking to marry their daughter to ascertain his moral, religious, and social belief, and to also know his family background. The bride and the groom to be are not allowed to have any physical contact until they are properly married. After this process the couple become engaged and both families start working towards the wedding and setting of date. The process of fixing the wedding date is called "Sa rana" [5]

Sadaki

This is the stage of paying the bride price or dowry. It starts with a minimum amount called "Rubu Dinar" in Hausa, ranging to the highest amount the groom can afford to pay. Islamic teaching teaches that a lesser dowry paid produces a more blessed marriage. [2] The money being paid as bride price is being announced to the hearing of everyone present. The bride price could be money paid in cash or in installments or it could be labor for a Damsel. As for a divorced or a widow, she gets to decide her bride price.

Lefe

Lefe refers to the items that groom purchase for the bride.

Wedding Fatiha

A bride with henna decoration Indian Wedding Ceremony (591).jpg
A bride with henna decoration

The wedding date is called the Fatiha. The wedding Fatiha used to organize inside the mosque after Friday prayer (jumu'a prayer) and it only consist of men like husband, father of the groom, friends of the groom, witnesses and people that attended the (jumu'a prayer).

Women are not expected to be seen in the wedding Fatiha rather they are to be with the bride celebrating her last day as a single and also prepare her for the married life. [2] The bride gets to sit in the midst of her female friends, relax and paint her lovely fingers and feet with henna, and her friends also paint theirs too. The bride in Hausa is called "Amarya" [6] whereas the groom is called "Ango". [7]

At the wedding reception, food and drinks are being served to the guests. [8] In Hausa tradition, it is the duty of the husband to rent an empty house while the responsibility of furnishing it is the responsibility of the bride's family. [5]

Kai Amarya

After the wedding, the bride is being accompanied to her husband's home to be well welcomed by the groom's family. They chant songs on their way and carry all the bride's belongings with them. [2]

Related Research Articles

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Wedding</span> Ceremony where people are united in marriage

A wedding is a ceremony in which two people are united in marriage. Wedding traditions and customs vary greatly between cultures, ethnicities, races, religions, denominations, countries, social classes, and sexual orientations. Most wedding ceremonies involve an exchange of marriage vows by a couple; a presentation of a gift ; and a public proclamation of marriage by an authority figure or celebrant. Special wedding garments are often worn, and the ceremony is sometimes followed by a wedding reception. Music, poetry, prayers, or readings from religious texts or literature are also commonly incorporated into the ceremony, as well as superstitious customs.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Engagement</span> Promise to wed; period of preparation before marriage

An engagement or betrothal is the period of time between the declaration of acceptance of a marriage proposal and the marriage itself. During this period, a couple is said to be fiancés, 'betrothed', 'intended', 'affianced', 'engaged to be married', or simply 'engaged'. Future brides and grooms may be called fiancée (feminine) or fiancé (masculine), 'the betrothed', a 'wife-to-be' or 'husband-to-be', respectively. The duration of the courtship varies vastly, and is largely dependent on cultural norms or upon the agreement of the parties involved.

A dowry is a payment, such as land property, monetary, cattle or any commercial asset that is paid by the bride's family to the groom or his family at the time of marriage.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Mahr</span> Islamic marriage gift from groom to bride

In Islam, a mahr is the bride wealth obligation, in the form of money, possessions or teaching of verses from the Quran by the groom, to the bride in connection with an Islamic wedding. While the mahr is often money, it can also be anything agreed upon by the bride such as jewelry, home goods, furniture, a dwelling or some land. Mahr is typically specified in the marriage contract signed upon marriage.

A Hindu wedding, also known as Vivaha, Marathi: Lagna (लग्न), Bhojpuri: Biyah (बियाह), Bengali: Bibaho (বিবাহ), Kalyanam, Kannada script: ಮದುವೆ (Maduve), Tamil: திருமணம் (Tirumanam), or Pelli, is the traditional wedding ceremony for Hindus. The wedding ceremonies are very colourful, and celebrations may extend for several days and usually a large number of people attend the wedding functions. The bride's and groom's home—entrance, doors, wall, floor, roof—are sometimes decorated with colors, flowers, and other decorations.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Marriage in Pakistan</span> Tradition in Pakistan

Marriage in Pakistan pertains to wedding traditions established and adhered by Pakistani men and women. Despite their local and regional variations, marriages in Pakistan generally follow Islamic marital jurisprudence. Marriages are not only seen as a union between a husband and a wife, but also an alliance between their respective families. These traditions extend to other countries around in the world where Overseas Pakistani communities exist.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Punjabi wedding traditions</span> Overview of the wedding traditions in Punjab

Punjabi wedding traditions are a strong reflection of Punjabi culture with ritual, song, dance, food, and dress that have evolved over centuries.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Zoroastrian wedding</span> Zoroastrian matrimony rituals

A Zoroastrian wedding is a religious ceremony in Zoroastrianism in which two individuals, a man and a woman, are united. In Zoroastrianism, marriage within the community is encouraged, and is greatly favored in religious texts. The following information will detail ceremony procedures and traditional processes for a Zoroastrian wedding.

Chinese pre-wedding customs are traditional Chinese rituals prescribed by the Book of Rites, the Book of Etiquette and Ceremonial and the Bai Hu Tong condensed into a series of rituals now known as the 三書六禮. Traditionally speaking, a wedding that incorporates all six rites is considered a daaih chéui.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Russian wedding traditions</span> Russian wedding culture

Russian weddings held great importance in their culture and tradition, evolving differently according the region, but maintaining common points. They can last between two days and one week usually involving activities like dancing, singing, toasting, and banqueting. The best man and bridesmaid are called "Witnesses" or "Свидетели" in Russian. The ceremony and the ring exchange take place on the first day of the wedding. Russian weddings ceremonies have undertaken a certain amount of Western traditions, including incorporating maids of honour into the wedding party.

Arabic weddings are ceremonies of matrimony that contain Arab influences or Arabic culture.

In the United States and Canada, weddings follow traditions often based on religion, culture, and social norms. Most wedding traditions in the United States and Canada were assimilated from other, generally European, countries. Marriages in the U.S. and Canada are typically arranged by the participants and ceremonies may either be religious or civil.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Marriage and wedding customs in the Philippines</span> Tradition in Philippines

Traditional marriage customs in the Philippines and Filipino wedding practices pertain to the characteristics of marriage and wedding traditions established and adhered by them Filipino men and women in the Philippines after a period of adoption courtship and engagement. These traditions extend to other countries around the world where Filipino communities exist. Kasalan is the Filipino word for "wedding", while its root word – kasal – means "marriage". The present-day character of marriages and weddings in the Philippines were primarily influenced by the permutation of Christian, both Catholic and Protestant, Hindu, Islam, Chinese, Spanish, and American models.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Islamic marital practices</span> Marriage rituals for Muslims

Muslim marriage and Islamic wedding customs are traditions and practices that relate to wedding ceremonies and marriage rituals prevailing within the Muslim world. Although Islamic marriage customs and relations vary depending on country of origin and government regulations, both Muslim men and women from around the world are guided by Islamic laws and practices specified in the Quran. Islamic marital jurisprudence allows Muslim men to be married to multiple women.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Bride price</span> Money or other form of wealth paid by a groom or his family to the family of the bride

Bride price, bride-dowry, bride-wealth, bride service or bride token, is money, property, or other form of wealth paid by a groom or his family to the woman or the family of the woman he will be married to or is just about to marry. Bride dowry is equivalent to dowry paid to the groom in some cultures, or used by the bride to help establish the new household, and dower, which is property settled on the bride herself by the groom at the time of marriage. Some cultures may practice both simultaneously. Many cultures practiced bride dowry prior to existing records.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Hajong marriage</span>

Traditional Hajong marriage is a ceremonial ritual that involves a marriage established by pre-arrangement between families. Within Hajong culture, romantic love and widow re-marriage were allowed, and monogamy was the norm for the Hajong people.

Wedding customs in Ethiopia vary among the tribes of the country.

Weddings in Myanmar, considered auspicious occasions in Burmese culture, reflect various ethnic, religious, and regional traditions. Depending on an individual's family social economic status, personal preferences and titles held, Burmese weddings can be religious or secular, and extravagant or simple. Wedding expenses are covered by the groom's family. Myanmar is a predominantly Buddhist country, and many wedding customs and traditions are influenced by Buddhism.

<span class="mw-page-title-main">Lefe</span> Marriage tradition of the Hausa people

Lefe is a Hausa wedding tradition that originated in the Hausa Land, Northern Nigeria (Arewa). The tradition asks the groom to purchase beautiful and expensive items as a grand gift for his bride. The groom's female relatives, including his aunts, take the gifts to the bride's house before the wedding. Upon arrival, the bride's parents welcome them and offer refreshments, along with a small reward.

References

  1. "Wonders of Hausa-speaking Northern Christian names". Tribune Online. 2021-10-30. Retrieved 2023-05-15.
  2. 1 2 3 4 5 Egbosiuba, Michael. "Hausa Traditional Marriage". All Things Nigeria. Retrieved 2022-10-23.
  3. "Traditional Marriage System in Hausa Culture". Information Parlour. 2015-01-20. Retrieved 2022-10-26.
  4. Efagene, Oke (2022-09-22). "Traditional marriage rites: How it's done in Hausa tradition". Pulse Nigeria. Retrieved 2022-10-28.
  5. 1 2 Bamidele, Michael (2020-06-07). "Traditional Marriage Rites In Nigeria". The Guardian Nigeria News - Nigeria and World News. Retrieved 2022-10-28.
  6. "English to Hausa Meaning of bride - amarya". hausa.english-dictionary.help. Retrieved 2022-10-28.
  7. "meaning of groom in Hausa". Hausa Dictionary | English Hausa Dictionary. Retrieved 2022-10-28.
  8. Yahaya, Abdulwali (2019-09-20). "Traditional Marriage Rites in Hausa Land, Northern Nigeria: How It Is Done". Nigerian Infopedia. Archived from the original on 2020-10-01. Retrieved 2022-10-28.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: unfit URL (link)