Why Marriage Matters

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Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry
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Cover of the first edition
Author Evan Wolfson
CountryUnited States
LanguageEnglish
Subject Same-sex marriage
Publisher Simon & Schuster
Publication date
2004
Media typePrint (Hardcover and Paperback)
Pages240
ISBN 0-7432-6458-4

Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry is a 2004 book by Evan Wolfson in which the author advocates the legal recognition of same-sex marriage. It was published by Simon & Schuster.

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