| "You Don't Own Me" | ||||
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| Single by Pale Waves | ||||
| from the album Who Am I? | ||||
| Released | 29 January 2021 | |||
| Recorded | 2020 | |||
| Genre | Pop-punk | |||
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| Label | Dirty Hit | |||
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| "You Don't Own Me" on YouTube | ||||
"You Don't Own Me" is a song by indie pop band Pale Waves.
"You Don't Own Me" is a pop-punk [1] song that was written by Pale Waves frontwoman Heather Baron-Gracie, and the singer-songwriter Sam de Jong; it is played in the key of C♯ minor and at 170 beats per minute. [2] [3] Described by Stitched Sound as a "empowering, guitar-heavy release of frustration", [4] "You Don't Own Me" opens with a "gritty chugging guitar" riff that plays over the song's verses. [1] The song then "transition[s] into a punk-pop [chorus] melody, which Avril Lavigne would be proud of". [5]
Lyrically, "You Don't Own Me" is a repudiation of sexism and gender norms. In an interview with NME , Baron-Gracie explained that the track is "about what it’s like to be a woman in this world ... [It discusses] how society depicts, judges and criticises women on a daily basis. ... I also wanted to say a fuck you to everyone that plays by these fake delusional rules that women and gender need to fit inside a specific box." [1] Many of the song's lyrics were inspired by instances of "sexist" and "inappropriate" behaviour directed at Baron-Gracie by men. The feminist ethos of the song is "unapologetic" and "angry" because, as Baron-Gracie put it, "we [i.e., women] are angry; we're sick of it!" [6] Due to its message, Baron-Gracie has cited the track as "the most important on" Who Am I? [6]
The music video for "You Don't Own Me" was co-directed by Heather Baron-Gracie and her partner, Kelsi Luck. Released on 1 March, [8] the video is "a love letter to early noughties emo and pop-punk"; [7] the website Nü Sounds wrote that the visuals of "You Don't Own Me" are a "portal to early 2000s grunge; red hair, graffiti, all the works." [9] The site also likened Baron-Gracie's dress to those worn by Melanie Martinez and called the overall production "a throwback of a lifetime". [9]
"You Don't Own Me" was released as the fourth single from Who Am I?, and it debuted on 13 January 2021. [10]
Credits adapted from the liner notes of Who Am I? [2]
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| Various | 29 January 2021 | Digital download, streaming | [10] | |
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