Allosexuality

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Allosexuality is the ability to experience sexual attraction and the lack of identification with asexuality. [1] [2] [3] [4] Someone who experiences allosexuality is allosexual, sometimes shortened to allo. Other terms to describe non-asexual people include zedsexual, [5] [6] or simply sexual. [7]

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The term does not indicate the target of sexual attraction, meaning allosexual could describe someone who is heterosexual, gay, bisexual, or pansexual, for example. [2] It also does not indicate how often an individual experiences sexual attraction or participates in sex or sexual encounters. [2]

Simplified diagram of the aromantic and asexual spectra A spec compass.svg
Simplified diagram of the aromantic and asexual spectra

Terminology

The prefix allo- comes from the Greek word Állos, meaning "other", "different", or "atypical". [8] It was attached to the suffix 'sexual' to create a term meaning "a person who experiences sexual attraction towards others". The structure parallels other sexuality terms such as homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, etc.

History

In a medicalized context, allosexual has been used in contrast to autosexual to describe sexual attraction towards others or sexual behavior between multiple people. [9] The term was coined by the asexual community, as a way to name and discuss the experiences of non-asexual people. [2] It is used to normalize asexuality and provide a term that can be used in conjunction with ace terminology. It makes it one sexuality among others, rather than being a deviation from what is simply 'normal'. [10]

Society and culture

Asexuals are estimated to make up 1% or less of the total population and about 1.7% of the LGBT population. [11] Since the majority of people would be classified as allosexual, it is viewed by some as the natural way of being and asexuality as a deviation from this norm. [12] Physical intimacy is considered an essential part of romantic relationships among allosexuals, which can complicate relationships between asexual and allosexual individuals. [3] Allonormativity, or the concept that all humans experience sexual attraction or desire a sexual relationship, can lead to the isolation and marginalization of asexual individuals. [13]

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