Harry Rilling

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Cheryl A. Cocco
(m. 1969;div. 1993)

Wanda J. Crespo
(m. 2001)

Lucia C. Medower
(m. 2013)
Harry Rilling
Richard Blumenthal with Harry Rilling (cropped).jpg
Rilling in 2021
40th Mayor of Norwalk, Connecticut
Assumed office
2013
Children3
Residence(s) Norwalk, Connecticut
Education Norwalk High School
Alma mater Iona College (B.S., Criminal Justice, 1989),
University of New Haven (Masters in Public Administration, 1991) [1]

Harry W. Rilling [2] (born August 6, 1947) is an American politician who previously served as mayor of Norwalk, Connecticut. He had previously served as Norwalk's police chief for 17 years before retiring. He is a Democrat, and was elected in 2013. Rilling defeated incumbent mayor Richard A. Moccia. [3]

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Early life and education

Rilling was born in Norwalk, Connecticut, on August 6, 1947, to Harry S. and Mary L. Rilling. He spent his early childhood partially in New Canaan, but was primarily raised in Norwalk. His father was a greenhouse worker while his mother was a homemaker. [4] He has an elder brother and sister. Rilling graduated from Norwalk High School in 1965.

He has a Bachelor of Science in criminal justice, summa cum laude, from Iona College, and a Master in Public Administration from the University of New Haven. He is a graduate of the FBI Executive Development Course.

Career

He enlisted in the United States Navy in 1967, and was honorably discharged in 1971 with the rank of E-5. He joined the Norwalk Police Department in 1971 and rose to the rank of chief in 1995, a position he held until his retirement in 2012. He served on the Norwalk Zoning Commission from 2012 until his election as mayor in 2013. From 1996 to 2004, Rilling was an adjunct professor of criminal justice at Norwalk Community College.

Rilling was an on-site assessor and team leader with the Commission on Accreditation for Law Enforcement Agencies (CALEA); he is a past chairman of the Mid-Fairfield Substance Abuse Coalition (MFSAC); past president of both the Fairfield County Chiefs of Police Association (FCCP) and the Connecticut Police Chiefs Association (CPCA); he is a Life member of the International Association of Chiefs of Police (IACP); and he is a board member of the National Committee on Narcotics and Dangerous Drugs (a committee of the Drug Enforcement Administration). Rilling served as Norwalk's Police Union president in 1976. [5]

On March 3rd, 2025, Rilling announced that he would not seek a seventh term in that years election. [6]

Personal life

Rilling was married three times. He first married Cheryl A. Cocco on January 4, 1969 [7] with whom he had three children, and divorced in 1993. [8] On October 30, 2001, he married Wanda J. Crespo. [9] Rilling married his third wife Lucia C. Medower (b. 1963) in November 2013. [10] He has three children from his first marriage.

His daughter, Christine Limone (née Rilling), a former day care operator, has been charged in the death of a toddler in her care in 2020. She has been offered a plea deal by state prosecutors. [11] [12] [13] His son, Stephen Rilling, a former Fairfield Police detective has been arrested and charged in a narcotics arrest. [14] [15]

Electoral History

2013 Norwalk Mayor election [16]
PartyCandidateVotes%±%
Democratic Harry Rilling8,63952.3%+8.7
Working Families Harry Rilling3672.2%−1.3
Total Harry Rilling 9,006 54.5%
Republican Richard Moccia 7,51445.5%−7.4
Total votes16,520 100%
Democratic gain from Republican
2015 Norwalk Mayor election [17]
PartyCandidateVotes%±%
Democratic Harry Rilling8,05260.7%+8.4
Working Families Harry Rilling3212.4%+0.2
Total Harry Rilling 8,373 63.1%
Republican Kelly L. Straniti4,89636.9%−8.6
Total votes13,269 100%
Democratic hold
2017 Norwalk Mayor election [18]
PartyCandidateVotes%±%
Democratic Harry Rilling7,62753.3%−7.4
Working Families Harry Rilling3072.1%−0.3
Total Harry Rilling 7,934 55.4%
Independent Lisa M. Brinton3,26422.8%
Republican Andrew T. Conroy2,20115.4%−21.5
Independent Bruce V. Morris9156.4%
Total votes14,314 100%
Democratic hold
2019 Norwalk Mayor election [19]
PartyCandidateVotes%±%
Democratic Harry Rilling8,39753.1%−0.2
Working Families Harry Rilling3852.4%+0.3
Total Harry Rilling 8,782 55.5%
Republican Lisa M. Brinton7,04744.5%+29.1
Total votes15,829 100%
Democratic hold
2021 Norwalk Mayor election [20]
PartyCandidateVotes%±%
Democratic Harry Rilling8,66560.9%+7.8
Working Families Harry Rilling3872.7%+0.3
Total Harry Rilling 9,052 63.6%
Republican Jonathan Riddle5,18036.4%−8.1
Total votes14,232 100%
Democratic hold
2023 Norwalk Mayor election [21]
PartyCandidateVotes%±%
Democratic Harry Rilling8,02653.1%−7.8
Working Families Harry Rilling3582.4%−0.3
Total Harry Rilling 8,384 55.5%
Republican Vincent Scicchitano6,73544.6%+8.2
Total votes15,119 100%
Democratic hold

References

  1. rillingformayor.com
  2. United States Public Records, 1970-2009
  3. "Norwalk Citizen Online". Archived from the original on 2013-12-02. Retrieved 2013-11-06.
  4. United States Census, 1950
  5. Norwalk, CT Official Website
  6. Ozanic, Kalleen Rose. "Norwalk Mayor Harry Rilling announces he will not run for reelection in November". The Hour. Retrieved 5 November 2025.
  7. Connecticut Marriage Index, 1959-2001
  8. Connecticut Divorce Index, 1968-1997
  9. Connecticut Marriage Index
  10. Koch, Robert (2014-12-10). "Mayor Rilling married in November, official ceremony expected in January". The Hour. Archived from the original on 2023-02-24. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
  11. "Daughter of Norwalk mayor arrested on 5 counts of injury to a child". News 12 - Connecticut. May 21, 2020. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
  12. Tomlinson, Pat (2021-08-10). "Former Norwalk day care owner offered plea deal in infant death case". StamfordAdvocate. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
  13. "Norwalk Day Care Owner Was Emailing When Child Died: Report". Norwalk, CT Patch. 2020-06-02. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
  14. Tepfer, Daniel (2020-03-13). "Fairfield agrees to pay settlement to Rilling". Connecticut Post. Archived from the original on 2023-02-24. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
  15. Tepfer, Daniel (2018-03-26). "Former police detective pleads guilty to drug counts". Connecticut Post. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
  16. "Prescribed Form for Return of Votes Cast at a Municipal Election" (PDF). State of Connecticut Office of the Secretary of State.
  17. "Prescribed Form for Return of Votes Cast at a Municipal Election" (PDF). State of Connecticut Office of the Secretary of State.
  18. "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2017 Nov 7 :: Municipal Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.
  19. "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2019 Nov 5 :: Municipal Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.
  20. "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2021 Nov 2 :: Municipal Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.
  21. "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2023 Nov 7 :: General Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.
Political offices
Preceded by Mayor of Norwalk, Connecticut
2013-present
Succeeded by
incumbent