Jia Tolentino

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Jia Tolentino
Born1988 (age 3536)
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
NationalityAmerican / Canadian
Education University of Virginia (BA)
University of Michigan (MFA)
Occupation(s)Writer, editor
Years active2013–present
Employer The New Yorker

Jia Angeli Carla Tolentino [1] (born 1988) [2] is an American writer and editor. [3] [4] A staff writer for The New Yorker, [5] she previously worked as deputy editor of Jezebel and a contributing editor at The Hairpin . [6] Her writing has also appeared in The New York Times Magazine [7] and Pitchfork . [8] In 2019, her collected essays were published as Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion.

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Early life and education

Tolentino was born in Toronto, Ontario, to parents from the Philippines. When she was four, her family moved to Houston, Texas, where she grew up in a Southern Baptist community. [9] [10] [11] [12] [13] Tolentino attended an evangelical megachurch and a small Christian private school. [13] Tolentino started elementary school early and graduated from high school as her class salutatorian. [13]

At the age of 15, she participated in the game show Girls v. Boys in Puerto Rico. [13]

In 2005, Tolentino enrolled at the University of Virginia [14] as a Jefferson Scholar, [15] studying English, joining the Pi Beta Phi sorority, and participating in an a cappella group called The Virginia Belles. [13] After graduating from UVA in 2009, Tolentino spent a year as a Peace Corps volunteer in Kyrgyzstan. [9] Tolentino earned an MFA from the University of Michigan. [16]

Career

Tolentino began writing for The Hairpin in 2013, hired by then-editor-in-chief Emma Carmichael. [17] [18] In 2014, Tolentino and Carmichael both moved to Jezebel, where Tolentino worked for two years before joining The New Yorker. [6]

Tolentino's writing has won accolades [19] across genres. Flavorwire called her a "go-to music source," [20] while her first short story won the fall 2012 Raymond Carver Short Fiction Contest [21] and was nominated for a Pushcart Prize. [22] She has also garnered favorable attention for essays on topics such as race in publishing, [23] marriage, [24] abortion, [25] and notions of female empowerment, [26] as well as for her no-pulled-punches music criticism. The A.V. Club admired "Tolentino's sick burns on Charlie Puth" [27] and Studio 360 observed that even in the near-universal panning of Magic!'s song "Rude", "no criticism has been quite as cutting as Jia Tolentino's." [28] Tolentino has reported extensively on the #MeToo movement. [29] [30] [31]

In 2017, Tolentino was named in the Forbes 30 Under 30 list in the media category. [32]

On August 6, 2019, Tolentino published a collection of essays entitled Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion. [18] It made its debut on The New York Times Bestseller List on August 25, coming in at #2 on the Combined Print & E-Book Non-fiction list. [33] In a review for The New York Times , Maggie Doherty wrote: "Tolentino’s earnest ambivalence, expressed often throughout the book, is characteristic of millennial life-writing, and it can be contrasted with boomer self-satisfaction and Gen X disaffection in the same genre." Slate columnist Laura Miller wrote in her review of the book, "Tolentino is a classical essayist along the lines of Montaigne, threading her way on the page toward an understanding of what she thinks and feels about life, the world, and herself." [34] Lauren Oyler's negative review of Trick Mirror in the London Review of Books , "skewer[ed] the essays’ shallowness and prose quality," though Tolentino reacted positively to the review, calling it a "cleansing, illuminating experience to be read with such open disgust!" [35] [36]

Her 2021 reporting on the conservatorship of Britney Spears, co-authored with Ronan Farrow, attracted international attention, [37] [38] [39] with the piece being described as "blistering" by Tyler Aquilina in Entertainment Weekly [40] and as a "journalistic reference text on Britney Spears" by Dirk Peitz in Die Zeit . [41]

In January 2023, Tolentino made a cameo in the HBO Max show Gossip Girl. [42]

Personal life

Tolentino met her husband, Andrew Daley, an architect, while they were students at UVA. [13] [43] In the essay "I Thee Dread" in her book Trick Mirror, Tolentino writes at length about her ambivalence toward marriage. [44] [45] They have two children. [46]

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