Pepper Schwartz

Pepper Schwartz
Schwartz speaks at TEDx Rainier on "The Next Sexual Revolution" in 2011.
Born	(1945-05-11) May 11, 1945 (age 80) Chicago, Illinois, United States
Education	Washington University in St. Louis Yale University
Occupation	Sociologist
Known for	Publications and television appearances

Pepper Schwartz (born May 11, 1945) ^[1] is an American sexologist and sociologist teaching at the University of Washington in Seattle, Washington, United States. She is the author or co-author of numerous books, magazines, and website columns, and is a television personality on the subject of sexuality.

Schwartz is notable for her work in the 1970s and early 1980s that culminated in the book American Couples: Money-Work-Sex, which was co-written with Philip Blumstein and surveyed lesbian couples, gay male couples and heterosexual couples.

Schwartz also serves as the Love & Relationship Expert & Ambassador ^[2] for AARP and writes the column The Naked Truth. ^[3]

Biography

Schwartz was born in Chicago, Illinois, into a Jewish home, the daughter of Gertrude and her husband, Julius J. Schwartz, an attorney. ^{[1] [4] [5]}

She received a BA and an MA from the coeducational Washington University in St. Louis and came to Yale University as a graduate student in sociology in 1968, the year before Yale admitted female undergraduates receiving an MA and PhD in sociology in 1974. ^[6] While a graduate student there, she co-authored with Janet Lever the 1971 book Women at Yale, documenting the first year of co-education at that university.

Schwartz wrote the column "Sex and Health" for Glamour magazine for seven years. She has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show, Dateline, and Dr. Phil, as well as on programs for the cable television network Lifetime; she currently airs as one of the relationship “experts” on the reality television show Married at First Sight . She was the 2005 president of the Pacific Sociological Association, helped create the dating website Perfectmatch.com, and is a sexuality adviser for WebMD.

Schwartz is a past president and fellow of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality and a charter member of the International Academy of Sex Research. The book jacket for her 2007 publication Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love, and the Sensual Years described her living "in Washington State, being single after a 23 year marriage, and having two children in college".

Research by Schwartz and others surveying lesbian sexuality has generated debates because the surveys stated that lesbian couples in long-term relationships have less sex than their heterosexual or gay male counterparts. The phenomenon was labeled "lesbian bed death". One factor in this debate concerns how "sex" acts were defined in surveys. ^[7]

Works

• Sex and the Yale Student, with Richard Feller, Elaine Fox, and Dr. Philip Sarrel (The Committee on Human Sexuality, Yale University, 1970) ^{[8] [9]}
• The Student Guide to Sex on Campus, by the Student Committee on Human Sexuality at Yale, edited by Richard Feller, Elaine Fox, and Pepper Schwartz (Signet Books, 1971)
• Women at Yale: Liberating a College Campus, with Janet Lever (Bobbs-Merrill Company, 1971)
• American Couples, with Philip Blumstein ^[10] (William Morrow, 1983)
  • American Couples: Money-Work-Sex, with Philip Blumstein (Pocket Books, 1985) ISBN   0-671-52353-8, ISBN   978-0-671-52353-4
• Gender in Intimate Relationships: A Micro-Structural Approach, with Barbara J. Risman (Wadsworth Publishing Company, 1988) ISBN   0-534-09690-5, ISBN   978-0-534-09690-8
• Everything You Know About Love and Sex Is Wrong (Perigee Trade, 1991 reissue) ISBN   0-399-52712-5, ISBN   978-0-399-52712-8
• Peer Marriage (The Free Press, 1994) ISBN   0-7432-5407-4
• Love Between Equals: How Peer Marriage Really Works (Touchstone, 1995) ISBN   0-02-874061-0, ISBN   978-0-02-874061-4
• The Gender of Sexuality: Exploring Sexual Possibilities (The Gender Lens series), with Virginia Rutter (AltaMira Press, 1998) ISBN   0-8039-9042-1, ISBN   978-0-8039-9042-5
• The Great Sex Weekend: A 48-hour Guide to Rekindling Sparks for Bold, Busy, or Bored Lovers, with Janet Lever (Perigee Trade, 2000) ISBN   0-399-52571-8, ISBN   978-0-399-52571-1
• Ten Talks Parents Must Have with their Children About Sex and Character, with Dominic Cappello (Hyperion Books, 2000) ISBN   0-7868-8548-3, ISBN   978-0-7868-8548-0
• 201 Questions to Ask Your Kids: 201 Questions to Ask Your Parents (Collins, 2000) ISBN   0-380-80525-1, ISBN   978-0-380-80525-9
• The Lifetime Love and Sex Quiz Book (Hyperion Books, 2002) ISBN   0-7868-8748-6, ISBN   978-0-7868-8748-4
• Schwartz, Pepper (2006). Finding your perfect match. Perigee Trade. ISBN   978-0-399-53244-3.
• Prime: Advice and Adventures on Sex, Love and the Sensuous Years (Collins, 2007) ISBN   0-06-117358-4. ISBN   978-0-06-117358-5
• The Normal Bar: The Surprising Secrets of Happy Couples, with Chrisanna Northrup and James Witte (Harmony, 2012) ISBN   978-0-307-95163-2
• Dating After 50 for Dummies (John Wiley and sons, 2014) ISBN   978-1-118-44132-9
• Snap Strategies for Couples: 45 fast fixes for everyday relationship pitfalls, with Lana Staheli ( Seal Press, 2015ISBN 9781-58005-562-8
• 50 Great Myths of Human Sexuality with Martha Kempner (Wiley Blackwell, 2015) ISBN   978-0-470-67433-8
• Frommers Places for Passion: the 75 most romantic destinations in the world-and why every couple needs to get away, with Janet Lever ( AARP Media, 2015) ISBN   978-1-62887-150-0

References

1. "Schwartz, Pepper 1945–". HighBeam Research. May 11, 1945. Archived from the original on September 21, 2014. Retrieved December 30, 2017.
2. null (October 28, 2016). "Dr. Pepper Schwartz – Sex and Relationships Expert". AARP. Archived from the original on December 30, 2017. Retrieved December 30, 2017.
3. "'Ask Pepper Schwartz'". Archived from the original on 2010-05-28. Retrieved 2010-05-27.
4. Dreyfus, Hannah; Goldblum, Robert; Weitz, Ari Shane; Ain, Stewart; Rosenblatt, Gary; Ain, Stewart (December 30, 2017). "Reality TV Takes Cue From Shidduch Scene". Jewish Week. Archived from the original on December 30, 2017. Retrieved December 30, 2017.
5. "Julius J. Schwartz, 94, preceded in death by his beloved wife Gertrude Schwartz; cherished father of Gary (Angela), Herb (Karen) and Pepper (Arthur Skolnik)". Chicago Tribune . Chicago, Illinois. 2 February 1998. Retrieved 6 September 2025– via Newspapers.com.
6. Morrow, Kelly (May 2012). "Sex and the Student Body: Knowledge, Equality, and the Sexual Revolution, 1960 to 1973". Dissertation, Doctor of Philosophy, Department of History, College of Arts and Sciences, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill . doi:10.17615/xmj3-p129 . Retrieved 6 September 2025.
7. Iasenza, Suzanne (November 9, 2001). "the big lie: lesbian bed death". fridae.com. Archived from the original on February 18, 2011. Retrieved February 20, 2011.
8. Treaster, Joseph B. (Sep 17, 1970). "Unofficial Sex Booklet Draws Mixed Notices at Yale". The New York Times. Retrieved 6 September 2025.
9. "Sex and the (Yale) Student". Manuscripts and Archives Repository, Yale University Library. Yale University. 1971. Retrieved 6 September 2025.
10. O'Brien, Ulrika. "Fifty Years of Relationships with Pepper Schwartz". soc.washington.edu | Department of Sociology | University of Washington. Retrieved 6 September 2025.

External links

• Official website - Pepper Schwartz .com
• faculty Web page at the University of Washington
• A New Look at Sex - Society for Human Sexuality at the University of Washington, Seattle
• Pepper Schwartz at IMDb
• NBC's Science of Love: A Modern Dating Experiment Reviewed - blogspot.com
• Pepper Schwartz' "Sex Matters" blog at MedHelp
• TEDxRainier – Pepper Schwartz – The Next Sexual Revolution on YouTube