That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be

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"That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be"
That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be by Carly Simon (US vinyl, side A).png
Side A of the US single
Single by Carly Simon
from the album Carly Simon
B-side "Alone"
ReleasedApril 1971
Recorded1970
Genre Soft rock [1]
Length4:15
Label Elektra
Songwriter(s)
Producer(s) Eddie Kramer
Carly Simon singles chronology
"That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be"
(1971)
"Anticipation"
(1971)

"That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be" is a song performed by Carly Simon, and the lead single from her self-titled debut album Carly Simon (1971). Her friend and frequent collaborator Jacob Brackman wrote the lyrics and Simon wrote the music. The song reached peak positions of No. 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart and No. 6 on the Billboard Adult Contemporary chart. [2] The song also earned Simon a nomination for Best Female Pop Vocal Performance at the 14th Annual Grammy Awards in 1972, where she also won Best New Artist. [3]

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Background

It is an art song with a semiclassical melody in the style of Gabriel Fauré, [4] and Elektra staffers were worried the single was too emotionally complex to be released as Simon's first single. With subject matter that includes "the parents' bad marriage; the friends' unhappy lives; the boyfriend's enthusiasm for marriage but controlling nature; the woman's initial resistance and ultimate capitulation." [5]

Simon was quoted as saying, "When I first wrote it I thought it was an unusual thing for people to break up, and now all my friends are divorced." [6]

Recognition

The success of the song propelled Simon into the limelight, and it has been included on several compilations of her work, including The Best of Carly Simon (1975), Clouds in My Coffee (1995), The Very Best of Carly Simon: Nobody Does It Better (1999), Anthology (2002), and Reflections: Carly Simon's Greatest Hits (2004), Carly Simon Collector's Edition (2009), and Songs from the Trees (A Musical Memoir Collection) (2015). [7]

In July 1971, the single reached No. 1 in Boston (WRKO), Burlington, Vermont (WDOT), New Haven (WNHC) and Rochester, New York (WSAY).

No music video existed for this song, although a filmed performance was produced for an episode of the early 1970s PBS series The Great American Dream Machine . [8]

In addition, Simon's performance of the song in New York City at the 1971 Schaefer Music Festival was filmed for the ABC television special Good Vibrations from Central Park. Simon performed on the 2nd and 3 July. ABC broadcast its special on August 19, 1971. In 2009, video of Simon's performance was posted to the official Carly Simon YouTube channel, where, as of 2023, it is still available. [9]

Track listing

7" single [10]

Chart performance

Awards

YearAwardCategoryWorkResultRef.
1972 Grammy Awards Best Pop Vocal Performance, Female "That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be"Nominated [3]

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