Virtuous Pedophiles

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Virtuous Pedophiles
Type of site
Internet Forum
Available inEnglish
FoundedJune 2012
Founder(s) Ethan Edwards
Nick Devin
URL virped.org (home page)
Users 8730
Current statusAlive

Virtuous Pedophiles is an Internet-based mutual support and public awareness group for pedophiles who acknowledge having a sexual attraction to children but want to lead normal productive lives without abusing children. [1] [2] The two founders of the group, who operate under the pseudonyms Ethan Edwards and Nick Devin, have stated that the initial goal of the group was to improve the "public relations" of pedophiles "to help people see that we're not all molesters" and to help other pedophiles. [3]

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History

Virtuous Pedophiles was founded in June 2012 by Nick Devin and Ethan Edwards as a spinoff of B4U-ACT's support group. According to the organization, its intent is to provide support and resources to people who are attracted to minors so they "remain law-abiding, and lead happy, productive live". Its website provides individual informational pages over multiple topics, including advice "for young pedophiles", "for partners" and "for therapists". It has also gathered some media attention and became a place where journalists seek people to interview on the subject of pedophilia. [4] [3]

As of 2016, it had over 1,000 members and averaged over 3,000 monthly posts. Unlike other pedophilia-themed websites, Virtuous Pedophiles cautions men not to have sex with minors. It states on its website that "we believe that sexual activity between adults and children is wrong". Even with these warnings, users are more likely to offend than adult attracted adults. [5]

The group also operates a peer support group, founded in 2013. As of 2018, it had reached 2,500 registered users, most being in their 20's and approximately 90% male. The group has also allowed researchers and mental health professionals to join, and has been used by researchers to find samples of non-offending people who are attracted to minors. [4]

Reception

The group's efforts have been discussed by human sexuality experts, such as Jesse Bering. [6] Local executive director of the Exploited Child Division of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children John Shehan has argued the group may be a cover for pedophiles that wish to share strategies for grooming children, stating that "while on the cover you think there may be legitimate reasons and purposes, not everybody who joins those groups has an altruistic motive". [3]

In 2017, Alexander McBride of Vice News wrote: "many of these claims [of not offending] cannot be verified. Perhaps some are using VirPed as a cover-up; perhaps some, who were even more daring, saw my photo story as a way to prove they had nothing to hide. I cannot guarantee that this is not the case and I can understand why many would be suspicious." [7]

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References

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