Wish You Were Sober

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"Wish You Were Sober"
Single by Conan Gray
from the album Kid Krow
ReleasedMarch 18, 2020
Genre
Length2:48
Label Republic Records
Songwriter(s)
Producer(s) Dan Nigro
Conan Gray singles chronology
"The Story"
(2020)		"Wish You Were Sober"
(2020)		"Heather"
(2020)
Music video
"Wish You Were Sober" on YouTube

"Wish You Were Sober" is a song by American singer-songwriter Conan Gray. It was released on March 18, 2020 by Republic Records as the fifth single from his debut studio album Kid Krow . The song was written by Conan Gray and Dan Nigro.

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Background

The song addresses the mistakes of Gray's teenage years, and acknowledges that "moments from young adult life aren't always remembered." [2] The song focuses on a specific incident where Gray's love interest would confess their love for him whilst "black out drunk". [3] The song was described as "the most straightforward pop song" on the album, [4] and was praised by E! for its "confessional lyrics and the excellent alt-pop production." [5]

Music video

A music video to accompany the release of "Wish You Were Sober" was first released on YouTube on March 20, 2020. The video was directed by BRUME. [6] The video was released with the album and gained over 400 thousand views in 48 hours. [7] [8]

Composition and lyrics

On Apple Music Editor's Notes under Gray's album Kid Krow, Gray writes that "It's ["Wish You Were Sober"] a song that I ended up sticking on the album last minute ’cause it was so much fun when I was making it. I wrote it about this person who I really, really liked and I wrote a lot of songs on my album about them and they just wouldn't tell me that they liked me back or would never tell me their true feelings unless they were blackout drunk. It was a weird, bittersweet feeling, because on one side you're thinking, ‘Yay, they like me and they have feelings for me and they like me back.’ On the other side you're thinking, ‘Why can't you tell me this when you're sober? Why can't you tell me this in daylight?’ I think the song is about all those mixed emotions and all the craziness behind being young and getting super drunk and calling someone and telling them that you love them.” [9]

Critical reception

"Wish You Were Sober" received praise and a shoutout from singer Taylor Swift. 191125 Taylor Swift at the 2019 American Music Awards (cropped).png
"Wish You Were Sober" received praise and a shoutout from singer Taylor Swift.

Helen Ehrlich from Affinity Magazine declared that "'Wish You Were Sober' is the song that plays in a coming of age film after the main character completely claims their identity. 'Wish You Were Sober' is the sensation of bursting out of a party, onto the front porch and out into the cool night. 'Wish You Were Sober' is a breath of fresh air." [11]

Taylor Swift praised "Wish You Were Sober" on her Instagram story, claiming it was her favorite song off Kid Krow. In her story, Swift wrote; "Obsessed with this whole album. but this song ["Wish You Were Sober"] right here is a masterpiece. Not trying to be loud but this will be on repeat for my whole life. Volume all the way up." Gray responded via Twitter, writing; "Thank you for being my lifelong songwriting inspiration and icon. I honestly feel like you raised me both as a writer and a human and I cannot express in words how much this means to me. Thank you for everything. Swiftie for life." [12]

Credits and personnel

Credits adapted from Tidal. [13]

Charts

Chart (2020)Peak
position
New Zealand Hot Singles (RMNZ) [14] 14

Certifications

Certifications for "Wish You Were Sober"
RegionCertification Certified units/sales
Brazil (Pro-Música Brasil) [15] Platinum40,000‡
Australia (ARIA) [16] Gold35,000‡

‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.

Release history

RegionDateFormatLabel
United StatesMarch 18, 2020 Republic Records

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