Adult bar and bat mitzvah

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An adult bar/bat mitzvah is a bar or bat mitzvah of a Jewish person older than the customary age. Traditionally, a bar or bat mitzvah occurs at age 13 for boys and 12 for girls. Adult Jews who have never had a bar or bat mitzvah may choose to have one later in life, and many who have had one at the traditional age choose to have a second. [1] An adult bar or bat mitzvah can be held at any age after adulthood is reached and can be performed in a variety of ways. [2]

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The adult and child b'nai mitzvot differ mainly in planning; adults plan their own celebrations, while children's are organized by their community or parent(s). Additionally, many relatives of the child may have passed away, and the adult often has a family of their own. Some Jewish men hold a second bar mitzvah at age 83, marking 70 years since their first, with 83 symbolizing Moses’s age when he and Aaron, his brother, first demanded the Israelites' freedom from Pharaoh. [3] [4]

Reasons

There are many reasons adult Jews choose to have a bar or bat mitzvah:

History

Rabbi Albert Axelrad of Brandeis University officiated the first adult bar and bat mitzvahs in the early 1970s. He encouraged the practice in all denominations of Judaism. [5]

Between 1995 and 2001, Hadassah held group adult Bat Mitzvah ceremonies for 180 women. [6]

In 2001, the Union for Reform Judaism created a guide on adult bar and bat mitzvah programs which was adopted by 900 congregations. In 2002, the Conservative Movement adopted this guide as well. [6]

Process

The process of becoming a bar or bat mitzvah for adults involves studying for a year or longer. It consists of Hebrew language, Jewish rituals, Torah readings, and Haftorah readings. Many synagogues provide classes for adults.

Notable adult bar and bat mitzvahs

In popular culture, there have been depictions of adult bar mitzvahs on TV shows:

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